My family is a quite traditional christian type lol. My mom doesnt like gay and think they are weird (no offense just what she thinks). Since that Im more into girls than into boys (Im a girl), I think I need some advices for the future lol. （￣へ￣）
There s no parents tht will ignore u cause u r their child (ofc not typical yaoi parents and like in "dark heaven"). Time will solve anything without u know it
There s no parents tht will ignore u cause u r their child (ofc not typical yaoi parents and like in "dark heaven"). Time will solve anything without u know it Chiyochi
But some of them will try to brainwash you. They think their children should follow their what they believe and against to what they think is evil. They might not ignore you, but they have their expectation. That expectation is somewhat troublesome.
Of course I'll see those replies with "Live your life" . And this is my advice;
1) Think it through, like think of who you really are. Can you see yourself dating a girl in the future?
2) Discuss this with someone who you truly trust, preferably someone older. Talk to older people because they have more wisdom like I'm sure they may have experienced or someone they know have also experienced this. Just open up your feelings.
3) Make sure the person you're discussing this with is truly trustworthy and kind, also not too much of a modern personality cause they might just say how crappy your parents are and all that yolo thing (thats usually the case). Like someone who really seem to be a life coach.
4) Try to get to the good side of your parents and if you are ready and have made a decision, talk to them. Communication is the key, don't lose your cool if they go berserk.
5) Remember that your parents are your parents, they love you I'm sure so always think of peace. One day, they'll be gone and regret is something that always happen in the end that breaks people's hearts due to wrong decisions. They might get mad because they love you, cares for you and are worried.
Well that's all, I hope peace in your family will be maintained and your relationship with each other would be precious. God loves you, don't be afraid!
Put some love into the development and sustenance of a community of friends outside of your family and their church, so that if and when personal troubles arise (and they always do), you have a means of comfort and support that does not require depending on conditional love.
Yeah thanks for good advices guys, I have really good friends that always be by my side, they will help me out of this stage. And I can really live with a girl, that's no lie, tested lol. I'll need some time to get my parents used to my new me. Again, thanks guys.(づ￣ ³￣)づ
My family is a quite traditional christian type lol. My mom doesnt like gay and think they are weird (no offense just what she thinks). Since that Im more into girls than into boys (Im a girl), I think I need some advices for the future lol. （￣へ￣）
it's going to be hard bruh stay strong
Ganbatte ne
Tell them after you've become independent, such as when you move out or when you have a job.
You can give them some space to contemplate and I'm sure they'll come to accept you, their beloved child.
I already am lol, it just makes me feel sad and I want understanding from my family thats all (●￣(ｴ)￣●)
Thanks for your advice!!
When they turned their back, you gotta move on buddy. There's a life to attend and a girlfriend to cherish. Break her leg
Is that troll? Break a leg.
Did I mishear something? anyway thanks for the advice tho...Σ( ￣□￣||)
There s no parents tht will ignore u cause u r their child (ofc not typical yaoi parents and like in "dark heaven"). Time will solve anything without u know it
But some of them will try to brainwash you. They think their children should follow their what they believe and against to what they think is evil. They might not ignore you, but they have their expectation. That expectation is somewhat troublesome.
Of course I'll see those replies with "Live your life" . And this is my advice;
1) Think it through, like think of who you really are. Can you see yourself dating a girl in the future?
2) Discuss this with someone who you truly trust, preferably someone older. Talk to older people because they have more wisdom like I'm sure they may have experienced or someone they know have also experienced this. Just open up your feelings.
3) Make sure the person you're discussing this with is truly trustworthy and kind, also not too much of a modern personality cause they might just say how crappy your parents are and all that yolo thing (thats usually the case). Like someone who really seem to be a life coach.
4) Try to get to the good side of your parents and if you are ready and have made a decision, talk to them. Communication is the key, don't lose your cool if they go berserk.
5) Remember that your parents are your parents, they love you I'm sure so always think of peace. One day, they'll be gone and regret is something that always happen in the end that breaks people's hearts due to wrong decisions. They might get mad because they love you, cares for you and are worried.
Well that's all, I hope peace in your family will be maintained and your relationship with each other would be precious. God loves you, don't be afraid!
Put some love into the development and sustenance of a community of friends outside of your family and their church, so that if and when personal troubles arise (and they always do), you have a means of comfort and support that does not require depending on conditional love.
Yeah thanks for good advices guys, I have really good friends that always be by my side, they will help me out of this stage. And I can really live with a girl, that's no lie, tested lol. I'll need some time to get my parents used to my new me.
Again, thanks guys.(づ￣ ³￣)づ