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i'll just live on as a villainess

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_ll_just_live_on_as_a_villainess/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/beware_of_the_villainess/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/asmodian_s_contract/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_youngest_princess/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_a_stepmother_but_my_daughter_is_just_too_cute/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_hunter_s_courtship_method/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_stole_the_male_lead_s_first_night/

MC is cinderella's evil stepmother:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_raised_cinderella_preciously/

MC entered a villanous lady's body under a contract with the demon king, to grant the body's owner's wish. Problem is, the body already died once, so now the MC has to live like a sunfish:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/happy_ending_for_the_time_limited_villainess/

MC is stuck in a timeloop that begins the day her fiancé breaks their engagement and ends when she dies at 20yo. She's been a merchant, knight, maid etc, and now that it's her seventh life she's becoming the bride of the man who started the war that caused her death in all her previous lives:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_villainess_wants_to_enjoy_a_carefree_married_life_in_a_former_enemy_country_in_her_seventh_loop/

Not a villainess story, per se, but MC is reincarnated and she is HILARIOUS.
mangago.me/read-manga/the_golden_haired_wizard/

MC accidentally enters a lifelong contract with a demon when she just wanted to light the fireplace...
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_ll_just_live_on_as_a_villainess/

Snow White's evil stepmother is actually a reincarnater who stans her stepdaughter HARD.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_a_stepmother_but_my_daughter_is_just_too_cute/

If you haven't read this yet, I recommend you do now! It's so chaotic and silly and amazing! Both MC, her father, her knight, butler etc. are batshit crazy in the good way!
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/if_you_touch_my_brother_you_re_all_dead/

After living as an unaging witch for 200 years, a formerly ordinary korean woman has become a rather quicky character, who has seemingly forgotten what common sense is.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_tyrant_s_guardian_is_an_evil_witch/

I think these are manga and in black and white BUT READ IT ITS VVVV FUNNY AND COOL AND JUST AHHHHH

WARNING THO, EVEN THO ITS COMPLETED, IT ONLY HAS FEW CHAPTERS
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_villainess_slow_prison_life_began_with_her_broken_engagement/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_a_villainous_daughter_so_i_m_going_to_keep_the_last_boss/

Beware of the villainess

Are you okay? What's wrong?

Not letting him know is hurting him even more. If I was the guy you're talking about and you never told me that you didn't enjoy being with me all this time, founding out by how you act or from someone else, I'd feel like absolute shit. Maybe you should talk to him about it, it may be hard but be true to him

Thats a difficult yet common situation people find themselves in, but just be clear and open about you feel. Love comes and goes, but if he is a true friend and is truly in "love" with you he'll understand you're hurting and that you need your freedom to be true to yourself. Hope it goes well, rooting for a good result ~~~

*virtual hugs* that’s a tough situation I can relate to! It’s really sweet for you to be considering this guy’s feelings but first and foremost you need to live for YOU. You don’t need to sacrifice yourself or your own happiness for someone else and you don’t owe him anything. Nice doesn’t mean you have to date. Maybe you guys can become friends again after this, but I think if you don’t see the relationship going anywhere (and your lack of feelings is big sign) that you should break up.
If you’re already feeling like this just after 6 weeks, it’s only going to get worse otherwise. I’d say stick with your designated day or earlier and end things, that way you can both recover from the aftermath.
Remember be firm in your decision, don’t let your feeling bad emotions relent if he wants to stay together. Break things off cleanly saying you care about him but not in this romantic way. And if your resolve is shaken, think if you were in his shoes would you want someone to stay with you out of pity? I don’t think so, getting things taken care of sooner will be better in long run.
I applaud your maturity and your action. You got this!

Personally I think you should follow what you feel and just break things off. It’s no good to stay with someone you know you don’t want be with no matter what anyone else says.

I think that it’s best if u tell him how u feel about him and the relationship. For me I’ll rather be honest than give someone false hope. I hope that u can sort this out successfully with him :))

I'd say break it off because that relationship is going nowhere and is just gonna weigh you down

I mean it's gonna hurt him either way if you stay and don't love him and if you break off with him. Imma sound bad but it all depends on what you want and decide. I

I think that u should do what makes you happier! this guy obviously likes you a lot, but what is the point if you cant return that. it is not your fault that he does not have many friends, and you should not date someone out of pity ( both for your sake and his) . I think that you should just tell him that you're not the right fit and you can't force yourself to stay with someone that you don't genuinely like. I tots get the nerves of doing so, but his happiness is not your job to handle, your happiness is!

it sounds as if you could possibly be friends even if you break up, some people fit perfectly but still feel uncomf with all the romance stuff. mby being friends is what u guys are meant to be? it might be awkward at first, but if he likes u I bet itl change through time:) don't be scared of sharing your thoughts! communication is kEY

hope it works out for u(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

been there, done that. I once dated a guy who has been confessing and being persistent (respectfully) about it. I just one day said oh why not and decided to just date him on a whim. I knew I wasn't attracted to him but after we started dating I found out that I *really* wasn't attracted to him not sexually nor romantically. what did I do? I wanted him to hate me so I just did. not. hold. back. I put zero effort in my looks, my way of speaking, how I presented myself and I whined about the littlest things and that man stuck it out for me. he just loved me like that. I dragged the relationship out for years coming up with reasons to break up every now and then that amounted to just "us not being right for each other" and "I'm not good for you" always avoiding the subject that I don't love him because I didn't want to hurt him. at the end of it all I broke up with him because I fell in love with someone else. after all that I did to him I knew that I didn't want leaving him for someone else or god forbid, cheating on him to be added to the list so I left him before anything else happened. I became a toxic piece of shit and wasted years of his life to "not hurt him".....well the end result was me becoming someone I hated and him wasting years of his life with someone he loved that ended up being toxic. at the end I still broke up with him and hurt him so much more than he would've been hurt had I been honest from the beginning before he invested so much in me and in the relationship. please break up with him with no excuses, the sooner the better. the right time for you to do that was the very moment you realized you didn't want him anymore, and each and every day you drag it out it becomes worse and worse on him. meet up with him in person, tell him that you no longer see yourself with him and assure him that he isn't the problem, it's just that you don't see him like that anymore. no matter how hard it may be, you have to this. I really wish you all the luck in the world

You will end up breaking up eventually. So do it sooner than later. It's better that way. I first relationship was like that too. Maybe I felt sorry for him so I accepted the confession. But a relationship out of pity is not fair for either person

really considerate of you for his feelings, but you have to be honest with your feelings, if you wanna break things off, no need to hesitate more and do it, if not now it's only gonna get worse. it's okay to be selfish of your feeling you don't have to be guilty because of him. if you think your relationship is weighing you down it's best to break it off early so you both don't have to deal with any hard feelings.

I'm not good with advice, but I hope this helps tho

no no this is amazing advice. you put my exact feelings into words, thank you sm for the help !

thank you sm for the help. idk how how word this but it rlly opened my eyes to my situation. respectfully, I'm in tears cause I never thought a bl site would give me such amazing advice

thank you sm for the help. I don't know how to word this but- your advice really opened my eyes(?) to all this, if that makes sense. respectfully, I'm in tears like I never thought a bl site would be full of such kind people. so thank you again for the advice, its been a massive help

LMAO WAIT THAT FIRST REPLY WAS A DRAFT IGNORE IT

I am really glad my experience could help you. those are not just words of courtesy, I am actually glad I can offer my experience as a form of help. you really seem like a nice person and I would love for you to end this and cut it clean. I really, truly wish you the best of luck

haha it's okay it happens