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To everyone who's hating on the uke, just say you don't understand how trauma works and go. As a victim of abuse, I can relate to him very much. And why is he being blamed for being manipulated by that piece of shit ex? He clearly knew that the uke was vulnerable and planted ideas in his head. The uke was abused by his father for 19 years of his life for fuck's sake. If you don't understand how that much trauma conditions the way you think and make decisions, then you can't take part in this conversation. He was drowning in self-loathing because he knew he was making the wrong decisions. I can't express myself properly, I'm shaking because of how insensitive most of you are. His actions are very realistic of people who have been abused. It's not that easy. You can't see the complexity of his character because most of you haven't gone through that trauma yourselves. It just bothers me how desensitized most of you are.
LOUDER PLEASE （/TДT)/ i mean like yes at first i was annoyed but the more i tried to understand his characther the more it looks like who i am (been trough abuse and bullying) i can express myself but i couldnt do it at the moment that makes me uncomfortable or hurt, i only can express myself when i couldnt handle my feelings anymore just like mingyu and only made decision where i think i was right and avoid being hurt, yet only to be turns out i was being selfish and more self-loathing ┗( T﹏T )┛
PLEASE THIS ENTIRE STORY I WANTED TO PUNCH EVERYONE WHO HURT HIM, all he received was more and more pain and insecurities. He deserved to feel secure not judged or mistreated. This is so true idk why people are completely disregarding his trauma and the shit he dealt with like he caused it, it wasn't his fault he was treated like shit and used by people. God I wish I could give him the comfort and security he needs. Cried for him the entire story┗( T﹏T )┛
Does anyone know the title of the story? There's two semes and they're both in college and are business partners. Then they hired the uke. I think it was fairly new and only has like 15 chapters so far. I forgot to bookmark and add it to my reading list. Thank you!
Here’s what a japanese translator said on twt:
In the upcoming panels, he says "no" and "wait" but never actually asks Shizu to "stop," and the scene continues. This isn't seen as nonconsensual or troublesome in Japanese media until clear indication that one party is upset comes in, but if that bothers you, please stop here! That's completely valid, by the way. Be safe and put your comfort above everything else!
But from what I understand from talking to JP friends, he's just shocked (or wanting to pause) and isn't actually saying he isn't okay with this . It has a different mood than ch. 20.
thank you for the heads up!
It doesn't mean he consent, saying no should be enough