That's funny, I always thought that he gave off "small dick"energy.... given how much he acts like a spoiled brat and has to mess around with everybody else's life just to feel powerful in his own life, I could have sworn his balls were tiny like peas! (￣へ￣）
That's funny, I always thought that he gave off "small dick"energy.... given how much he acts like a spoiled brat and has to mess around with everybody else's life just to feel powerful in his own life, I could... KinkKittn
Is it acting like a spoiled brat or is it learning from a young age to seek approval from someone else (father) to consider himself worthy? Now he desperately depends on others to feel self fulfilled and important to make up for the love his father refused to grant him (｡•︿•｡)
Is it acting like a spoiled brat or is it learning from a young age to seek approval from someone else (father) to consider himself worthy? Now he desperately depends on others to feel self fulfilled and import... Melina
Really?! And what "Dr.Phill moment" made taehee beat up and try to almost KILL a small child (taeha) while growing up during middle-highschool? Let's not act like this behavior just recently developed. The moment taehee found out about his father's affair child when he was a kid himself, he was trying to erase him. To the point where there are panels in the story that show his friends trying to stop him from almost killing taeha. If other students his age know the difference between the right and wrong there is no excuse for taehee and his homicidal, spoiled, evil behavior. He's a grown ass adult that damn well knows and understands what he's doing, and is aware of the consequences of his behavior. And he chooses every time to not give a shit and continue being a bully and an abuser. Miss me with the psychological evaluation excuse. Just because you want to worship an evil turd, doesn't say the rest of us have to agree with you and whatever toxic tastes you have.
Really?! And what "Dr.Phill moment" made taehee beat up and try to almost KILL a small child (taeha) while growing up during middle-highschool? Let's not act like this behavior just recently developed. The mome... KinkKittn
You're right that this behaviour has existed since his childhood, that's when it was created. And it's the father's fault for abusing Taehee as a child. He's an adult now, but just because you become an adult doesn't mean you're magically able to pick up after yourself. If anything, you are suddenly dumped with an even heavier type of responsibility and expectation, and everything you've been through all of a sudden don't matter. Taehee has never been provided the necessary help. And not all kids react to trauma the same way. Kids his age know right from wrong because they haven't been consistently beaten for being kids and for being themselves.
Taehee actually gives too much of a shit, that's why he has been acting in such a problematic way. About his father's approval, love, but also about his desire to be himself and loved as he is. He cares about not being abandoned because of his perceived inadequacy. I don't mean to force you to agree, I am only providing insight about someone whose struggle you willfully turn a blind eye to and openly treat as an innate psychopathic trait. Why do you interpret this as an attempt for me to excuse his behaviour? Regardless of whether it's fair or not, he does hold responsibility and his behaviour towards himself and others is terrible. At the same time it's important to understand it's not being spoiled, it's being traumatised and never taught what's right. But most importantly it's never knowing authentic, unconditional love, if any at all.
You don't need to hold the same grace for him as I do. But it's not toxic and it's not manic to show grace to someone who's so clearly struggling and is hurting themselves and others in the process. Not everyone can or wants to do this, rightfully so. Yet it's always people who don't deal with their trauma in an acceptable way that are vilified and blamed entirely for someone else's wrongdoing. This is also very prominent in women's experiences, who are constantly made to be the problem and misdiagnosed with bpd, simply for trying to survive within the patriarchy. This isn't the same, but it's sort of resemblant. Taehee isn't absolved of all responsibility, but the biggest critisism and responsibility should be directed towards his dad. Taeha isn't the only victim.
You're right that this behaviour has existed since his childhood, that's when it was created. And it's the father's fault for abusing Taehee as a child. He's an adult now, but just because you become an adult d... Melina
I can't miss you with the psychoanalysis because that's where the money lies. It's what gives you perspective and allows you to grasp the human complexity and nuance. That's also part of the adult responsibility you claim Taehee lacks. Aka understanding that the grown world is no longer black or white, acknowledging that emotional and cognitive health are heavily influenced by and dependent on your environment, that they determine human behaviour. Also realising that society wants to push everyone into embodying the socially compromised and accepted image of "healthy", "unhealthy" etc. and pathologise their individuality, learning to view people as individuals, not projections of your own prejudice.
I could go on for a long time about the responsibilities we all hold as adults but don't fulfill. We always looove to condemn others and ignore our own misgivings just because they influence others indirectly and discreetly. But in reality we are also cancers heavily contributing to the way every other Taehee acts when we act like this.
Tae-hee i know your hot asf but dont u mess around with my baby haesoo, i will kick ur big balls ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
That's funny, I always thought that he gave off "small dick"energy.... given how much he acts like a spoiled brat and has to mess around with everybody else's life just to feel powerful in his own life, I could have sworn his balls were tiny like peas! (￣へ￣）
Is it acting like a spoiled brat or is it learning from a young age to seek approval from someone else (father) to consider himself worthy? Now he desperately depends on others to feel self fulfilled and important to make up for the love his father refused to grant him (｡•︿•｡)
Really?! And what "Dr.Phill moment" made taehee beat up and try to almost KILL a small child (taeha) while growing up during middle-highschool? Let's not act like this behavior just recently developed. The moment taehee found out about his father's affair child when he was a kid himself, he was trying to erase him. To the point where there are panels in the story that show his friends trying to stop him from almost killing taeha. If other students his age know the difference between the right and wrong there is no excuse for taehee and his homicidal, spoiled, evil behavior. He's a grown ass adult that damn well knows and understands what he's doing, and is aware of the consequences of his behavior. And he chooses every time to not give a shit and continue being a bully and an abuser. Miss me with the psychological evaluation excuse. Just because you want to worship an evil turd, doesn't say the rest of us have to agree with you and whatever toxic tastes you have.
You're right that this behaviour has existed since his childhood, that's when it was created. And it's the father's fault for abusing Taehee as a child. He's an adult now, but just because you become an adult doesn't mean you're magically able to pick up after yourself. If anything, you are suddenly dumped with an even heavier type of responsibility and expectation, and everything you've been through all of a sudden don't matter. Taehee has never been provided the necessary help. And not all kids react to trauma the same way. Kids his age know right from wrong because they haven't been consistently beaten for being kids and for being themselves.
Taehee actually gives too much of a shit, that's why he has been acting in such a problematic way. About his father's approval, love, but also about his desire to be himself and loved as he is. He cares about not being abandoned because of his perceived inadequacy. I don't mean to force you to agree, I am only providing insight about someone whose struggle you willfully turn a blind eye to and openly treat as an innate psychopathic trait. Why do you interpret this as an attempt for me to excuse his behaviour? Regardless of whether it's fair or not, he does hold responsibility and his behaviour towards himself and others is terrible. At the same time it's important to understand it's not being spoiled, it's being traumatised and never taught what's right. But most importantly it's never knowing authentic, unconditional love, if any at all.
You don't need to hold the same grace for him as I do. But it's not toxic and it's not manic to show grace to someone who's so clearly struggling and is hurting themselves and others in the process. Not everyone can or wants to do this, rightfully so. Yet it's always people who don't deal with their trauma in an acceptable way that are vilified and blamed entirely for someone else's wrongdoing. This is also very prominent in women's experiences, who are constantly made to be the problem and misdiagnosed with bpd, simply for trying to survive within the patriarchy. This isn't the same, but it's sort of resemblant. Taehee isn't absolved of all responsibility, but the biggest critisism and responsibility should be directed towards his dad. Taeha isn't the only victim.
I can't miss you with the psychoanalysis because that's where the money lies. It's what gives you perspective and allows you to grasp the human complexity and nuance. That's also part of the adult responsibility you claim Taehee lacks. Aka understanding that the grown world is no longer black or white, acknowledging that emotional and cognitive health are heavily influenced by and dependent on your environment, that they determine human behaviour. Also realising that society wants to push everyone into embodying the socially compromised and accepted image of "healthy", "unhealthy" etc. and pathologise their individuality, learning to view people as individuals, not projections of your own prejudice.
I could go on for a long time about the responsibilities we all hold as adults but don't fulfill. We always looove to condemn others and ignore our own misgivings just because they influence others indirectly and discreetly. But in reality we are also cancers heavily contributing to the way every other Taehee acts when we act like this.