I ask cause i trust people as far as i can throw them, which is not far. I worked this out early probably 1st year college/high school at 13. I know one of the reasons is cause when I was 9, my mum told me, we (Her, my older brother and me) were leaving my dad. She didn't tell him, he went to work one night and come home to a letter and empty house. from then on I have had trouble believe everyone, including her. She has lied to me heaps of time which is hard to handle cause shes my mum and i love her and she been thought a lot growing up. I a introvert and not a fan off a lot of people around me (I work in retail so i deal with all sorts) I have had a people am close with and then people i know. Now i am 25, I got no friends at all, my life is work, family (which is a drama at the mo with my half sister) and my cats. I am single but wood love a guy to come take me away from all this but i don't feel up to parading myself around and cause of the trust issues internet dating is awkward.So how well do you trust people??
Not much tbh, I probably need to know them as much as I know my parents to trust them enough. I can make friends with anyone but i'm not a very confident person (not like it's a problem for my everyday life though).
I've dealt with a lot of liars in my life and it's kind of become a habit to analyze people and see if they're lying. I talk to people a shit ton every day and it's become pretty noticeable when they lie, so i pretty much trust everybody who doesn't get my habit going. (Examples of lying i've noticed are fidgeting in their seat, keeping their hand still when lying, not being able to keep a straight face, looking away when you make eye contact and being a bit timid to you. If it's a small lie they kind of try to quickly say it to get it over with, i've noticed.) Try to look at things in an analytical way and your life will be a lot more smooth, from my experience.
I don't trust many people at all either. I have a hard time talking with people, I can't seem to be myself because I constantly mold myself to be a person they'd like. I do this because I don't know how to trust and like you said you have problems because of your past and so do I. I recommend just getting out and doing different things to meet people or have your sibling introduce you to someone. However a lover won't erase all your problems
I do this a lot too
I don't fully trust anyone.
I don't trust anyone and can be viciously private in person. Most people have only seen me by the shallow part of myself, some medium, rarely deep. It takes a great deal and time to earn my trust and I have been doing this since I was a child. I do have an obvious reason for this but mostly it is for my own benefit.
I do have friend whom I can call to hang out, and also a family. However, they are never going to be part of my inner circle which there's really no one yet. People don't know my past unless they were present in the scene. Some people get shocked as they had no idea that was in my life and past. Granted, I never hide anything. I just never mention it unless it was brought on and you have my trust to learn about it.
Do I feel lonely? No, I am actually very pleased to be alone. Do I want to be in relationship? No. The idea of having companionship isn't bad but I don't seek for a romantic partner. Do I feel bad for not being myself? No, I keep my true self to myself and didn't let anyone see it but I am not going to be someone else.
The last part I feel the same, when i mean guy i dont mean it has to be romantic, i get on better with males better then females, always have. i find most females have an agenda and be catty
I know a lover won't help with some problems but i didnt mean it had to be romantic, ive just found guys are easier for me to get along with
I was reading a yaoi awhile ago bout the uke becoming broke dont rem wat it called nut oh well, was wounding if there is more manga where one is rich but then s**t happens and their poor. Complete the better. thank
Ive done it a again forgot to bookmark a manga. from wat i rem he lived with his sister (who walks around nude (dont now y i rem that lol)) he liked his friend but didnt now he was gay, he come out to his sister too. hope this info.
Also if you have any other manga you think i should read feel free to drop a link in, always looking for something new and completed would be better as i have a long ongoing list.
Thanks all
YES oh god thank you, been looking for this for 2 days
Hahahahah no problem. Be sure to bookmark it this time hahahah (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
put it in your "already read" section and tag is as "panty hose" or something, haha.
btw, there are other mangas that are somehow similar to jackass you might like some other um... unique taste. (feel free to check around, 90% of them are completed) http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/44110/
thanks ill check them out
I'm a idiot, found really good yaoi and now can't find it. they go to university, their best friends dark hair has crush on blond guy ( does martial arts ) close to the end the dark hair guy saves friend from getting hurt but gets hurt himself, in hospital he joking and says he doesn't know him and then blond guy say he his boyfriend in front of everyone. hope this is enough. Thanks
that sounds like this one?
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kataomoi_to_parade/
Omg i know this but i just can't remember the name..... i want to know too!!!!
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kataomoi_to_parade/ I guess this scene is from the last chapters
Thats it thanks so much ヾ(☆▽☆)
Found a photo of a manga "Noble, My Love The Noble You 고결한 그대 Gogyeolhan" (I think) but i cant find it here and not on another site, can anyone help please
you could watch the drama if you don't find the webtoon?? lol sorry for the useless advice
thanks anythings helps
haha np. Im in the same boat sometimes too. there's a bunch of awesome webtoons I'd love to read (in english) but not sure how to access/find them. The english naver webtoons app is the only legit source that i know of
thanks again ill give it a go
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/daikirai_na_aitsu/mh/v01/c003/1/
What manga is this? i feel like it is familiar and i have read it b4 but cant remember.
art style is like nekota yonezou-sensei
http://www.mangago.me/r/l_search/?name=nekota%20yonezou
thanks, that helps ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
Looking for Yaoi, completed would b good. Something where the seme can b a bit scary at times but very loving, open minded to just bout anything but NO incest please.
These types of seme. Also, there are times that even if they have a big heart, they do ran out of patience too. Trying checking each one of my semes in this list http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/43389/
can anyone please tell me what manga this is http://i1.mangapicgallery.com/r/newpiclink/room_1_2/4/22fe9e8ba46f2a403e7cecf32f9bfc2e.jpeg
That's merry checker
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/merry_checker/
thanks
No probs
After reading some yaoi where they come out / found out by family or friends and then are treated like shit, I cant understand how their view of the person changes just by finding that out. I get religion and peoples beliefs but still all the years of knowing someone and for that to effect how you see or treat that person is just low. Ive had a friend come out to me in school as Bi, who was more shocked by the fact I said "OK cool", LOL they had more questions bout my reaction then i did bout them. Only question I had was how they saw me cause i didnt want to lead them on.
anyway just wondering wat others think of this?
most human relationships are very superficial and based around an image
i just think of it as that's the level of friendship i had with the person if he/she turned out to be shitty OR how good of an actor that person is for not showing their shitty side for me to have believed in them lol