i would probably dismantle the patriarchy. ya nasties
First of all, when someone "loses their virginity" is no one's business but theirs. We have a term for judging other people for what they do with their own bodies, and it's "slut-shaming." You do what you want with your body, and let others do the same. In addition, as a grown married woman and mother, virginity is overrated. Many societies place ......
I have a love hate relationship with yaoi and the two things I hate most are: 1. Yaois that portray rape and abuse as romantic and/or cute 2. The inflexibility of the whole uke/seme concept Accordingly, my favorite yaoi mangas are the ones that either don't include sexual violence or portray it in a negative light (like the recent chap. of "......
Never seen any straight guys that do though. Personally I think that they wouldn't. Because masculinity and whatever they think that means is too fragile for it. Hell they can't accindentally touch hands without saying ''no homo'', they always feel the need to clarify they're not gay for some reason. They would not read anything gay for that stupid......
First of all, don't start to justificate or condemn something by saying "Normal people don't ...." unless you want to be immediately discredited. It makes you sound silly, and unthoughtful. No one is truly "normal". 2nd of all, you do NOT know everyone's reasons for doing it, so belittling their reasons by saying its "ridiculous" or insulting them ......
I think most straight women wouldn't be interested in yuri. However, for men, unlike for women, there's a repulsion. That's simply because of toxic masculinity+homophobia. Same reason women hugging is okay but men hugging is “gay.” Same reason many straight men are opposed to prostate play, they think it'll make them gay or less of a man even i......
1. Yaoi plot about individuals in healthy relationships 2. Yaoi plot about independent individuals in healthy, communicative relationships 3. Yaoi plot about independent individuals in healthy, communicative and supportive relationships with people other than their significant other Doukyuusei. Basically, I want Doukyuusei. Just let the gays be......
90% of the yaoi mangas depict unhealthy relationships and wrong practices. also its so wrong for someone to learn about lgbt+ people from these mangas because 99% of the time theyre extremely transphobic,biphobic and believe it or not homophobic. it makes people fetishize and objectify gay people soo much. i know it because 3 of my close friends do......
Repitition. Seeing the same kind of story over and over again. Always having the one guy be reluctant for sex. Always comparing the various aspects of their relationship to straight relationships. Making lightly homophobic comments as if the author is ashamed of their own work. Always having at least one guy be new to being gay. Never switching up ......
Bad art, overly feminine uke, uke cries and drooling when having sex, like seriously why? It's gross eww. People don't drool when having sex okay? Also sex scenes that comes out of nowhere, like there's no build up and it suddenly happen. Rape scenes, incest, shouta, and many more actually. I realize that I've become pickier as I'm older lol
- any and all incest - too large age gap - too young characters - too feminine/loli uke - bad/sloppy/unrealistic art style - bad pacing - love triangles sometimes - characters that are difficult to distinguish - dumb characters - useless girl side characters - necrophilia - too much sex I still will read manga with some of these aspects but I defi......
I'm gay. 100% gay. While I have felt very emotionally close to females in the past, I have never been physically attracted to females. Even as a child I would fantasize about romantic relationships with other males. I do, however, appreciate the beauty of the female figure and many of my greatest role models are female. Physically and romanticall......
I definitely don't like how they portray women in a lot of yaoi. I understand that it's BL but they don't have to treat all girls as if they are petty, superficial, conniving evil people. It kind of grates on my nerves. Also I hate the lack of consent in yaoi manga. It's so common to see a guy get the other one drunk and then rape him. Then he'll ......
i really like trip hop, lounge or chill out so i get more immersed in my reading, but closer is one hell of a sexy song ^^
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