I realized I was gay when I started feeling aroused by the same gender around 11. I assumed it was a passing phase but finally came out when I was 16 since I realized I was just how I was and nothing was changing. My folks are lesbians though so coming out was a blessing in its ease.
I thought I was straight until 17, when I had my first kiss with a girl. From then on I thought I was bi. But when I was 20 I figured I might as well be asexual. I'm 21 now, still feeling ace, but you never know, i guess. It might be so clear for some people but more difficult for others to figure out things
How has Yaoi improved my life.... Hmm. Well, it gave me more spice in my life, like my life now actually had a meaning as stupid as that sounds.. But yeah. I was really badly depressed, I was getting bullied at school and I had nearly no friends. I had almost given up on life. But now I'm glad I didn't, because then I discovered Yaoi, and something......
I personally like the metaphor that sexuality is a spectrum. So between straight and gay/lesbian, everyone can find their own place in that scale whether that is completely straight, gay, or bi. Or more commonly in some space in between. As a 15-year-old girl, I'm still unsure but I would probably place myself as bi, but slightly more attracted to......
My stomach got butterflies and I got an erection. Best discovery I've ever made.
I was 9...I stumbled upon some shounen ai anime (kyou kara maou, was it?) and got confused. So I did more research, and the yaoi gods guided me towards koisuru boukun, which only confused me further, because half of their bodies were hidden in shadow and I got confused cause I didn't know where morinaga is putting his thing...and because, me, young......
question for lgbtq+?? /gen