There is a genuine problem of straight women fetishizing and abusing gay men for their own pleasure. There is a lot of toxicity in BL media and it's tropes. I don't believe there's anything wrong with being into watching two guys go at it, but when it comes down to fetishizing actual gay relationships and forcing your own distorted gender roles on ...... 1 reply
When I see a tall hot yaoi guy or a hot manga girl then all I want to do is just make them cry. I definitely like the idea of dominating someone bigger than me or more ahead than me in life sexually (with consent). 3 reply
I prefer very non-rapey yaoi. I like a buildup of emotions and some conflict between the two of them etc. But there also has to be a more original plotline as well and not just take from the countless cliches. I also like hardcore sex scenes. reply