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In my opinion, they're both in the wrong. Though Yohan is way more wrong than Mugyong, but still. You can't put your unecessary anxiete on your partner, he doesn't have to put up with it.You have to work on it, with or without your partner's help.
And it's wrong to say nobody will ever be attracted to you except your partner. That's not possible, cause if at least one person is attracted to you, it means other persons can too. So that's not reassuring to hear at all, and not respectful to your partner who is attracted to you... And it's wrong to believe that yourself. It means your self esteem is too low, and you don't have enough self respect. Your love social skills are not developped enough. And you also have to work on it.