There's postpartum and then there's just being a bad person. Even if you couldn't love him as ur child she could have treated him like a decent human. The dad can take as long as he wants to forgive her. And worst she is blaming other people instead of owning her decisions thats not how you earn forgiveness
Girl was having too many near death experiences. He has failed in protecting her from anything. All these women love him and are trying to get her out the picture. I would have left the first day my life is too precious to play around with his psycho fans.
But this story is better than most of the other abusive ones