I think transphobia in this community just really solidifies the fact that gay relationships are just a fetish to some of you for me. Why does the idea of a man having a pussy cause you discomfort? I've seen this mentioned on here under the very few yaois where mc/ml has a cunt and on twitter recently under a thread about making male characters have vaginas/making them trans.
if you are so bothered by the idea of a man having a pussy, I genuinely think you need to look inward and discover if there's really a deeper reason behind *why* you feel that way. The thread I saw on twitter wasn't just expressing their discomfort—they were calling it wrong and disgusting for a man to have anything other than a penis.
If you think an author should just write a straight fic because they wrote a story where one of the men have a vag instead of a dick, you need to do some soul searching!!! It's even worse if you yourself are a woman/have a vagina—if you think a mlm relationship is no longer a mlm relationship because they can't sword fight and are instead sword and sheath, you are a transphobic weirdo!!
I wish i could make this about how male centered some of the people on this site are, but in the case I'm talking about, both parties are men so i really cant...
Why are so many people on here prone to blaming the mc (specifically the bottoms) in a yaoi when they're raped, assaulted, or wronged in any other way? Not just that, but if both parties are wrong in any way, the blame somehow always shifts to lie fully on the uke in the story .
My friend and I had a conversation about this recently and it's just been on my mind more and more lately the more I start to read comments—the seme is somehow never wrong in a scenario just because theyre the 'yearner' archetype. I hate to break it to you guys, but just because someone is in love doesnt mean they cant be evil or do stupid shit... I genuinely need to know how some people end up thinking this way
