Kim Dan trains before remember? So, I'm not scared, I hope that Doc Dan will butcher that old hag!!!!!!! And then, JK will finish him off. I JUST HOPEEEE
The attack from this comsec validates why Garam reacted that way. The two of them have MISCOMMUNICATION, and most of the time, none of them is right or wrong because what they feel are both VALID. HOWEVER, if not both of them, one has to really compromise. That's all I can say.
Now is not the time to pick sides, but to be more empathic and understanding that same sex relationships is never that easy especially in the story's setting.
I feel like Jaeyi's older brother is ideum's first romantic attachment. Just a guess though