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I don't know what my reaction should be. My group of friends are all achievers and they are really cool people. Tho there were little to no conflict in who's first, all of a sudden my friend (A) suddenly said to us that she's a little upset with friend (B) because she seems to be on top now. She says she's guilty for feeling this way and whatnot and so friend (c) and I advised her that it was a normal thing to feel since she used to top. Then all of a sudden (insert drum roll) friend (b) distance herself from the group. We thought it was about the grades or just a minor problem about the group but then she suddenly told us that she wants to leave the group because she feels like she needs "to find herself" which was a very shitty reason and believe it or not that was all we heard or squeezed out from her. That went on for at least half a month and just today in messenger, she messaged us that she was diagnosed with a mental illness that. Made her feel like reality was in a dream like state. We then believed her and even said that she can't leave and stupid stuff likr that. I even teared up because she was really important to me and then they fucking did it. Happy freaking april fools day. Maybe I sound like a boring person that can't take a joke but believe me I clown all the time and isn't a serious person in a daily basis but I can't stand this one. It frustrates me that they even used an illness as a prank... I mean is that how important our friendship is? It just adds up that friend a and b are all in this together. I feel like shit listening to them right now and believing because I was taken as a fool. How can I even handle this problem? I want to slap a random bish really...
Update: AND SHE FUCKING SAYS THAT ITS TRUE NOW. i don't even know what to believe...
Wow sorry you're going trough this!! It does sound like quite a pickle. Honestly that is a weird thing to "joke" about. But even before they said it wasnt a joke it did cross my mind that they probably said it was a joke but they themselves havent processed their mental illness and isnt ready to go trough it with friends. When it comes to mental illness it can be difficult to feel connected to others your mind literally makes it(almost impossible to do so. I think you should have a serious conversationsl with them an tell them positive things first anf tell them(how much you care about them and your friendship and than follow it. Up with saying why you were(bother by the situation. If you go at them mad you may never find the truth because theyd be to scare to share it. Best of luck to you friend!
Thanks for replying. I really need this right now. I don't think she wants us to talk to her right now. She's been literally leaving group chats and just saying goodbye. I don't even know what to do because she's going to leave school possibly. And even before her saying this was all a prank and stuff, we've been trying our best to talk to her... she's been very distant to US but not to her other friends. It's just heartbreaking to see that I'm questioning our worth even though I know that she really does loves us. I'm just confused, what to feel and really how to help her and this situation because Im just questioning everything after she and my friend lied.
Ugh, I totally understand. I used to have a friend like that too. I still talk to her but when she comes up to me with her "problems" I never know if they're real or fake. So I just listen. No advice or anything. Just listen. My replies are, "Oh..." "Really?" "Ok"
Maybe is an April Fools prank?
So the story centers around two boys that are twins. It's not yaoi but it does have some hints and stuff. The older bro had a very childish appearance compared to the younger one and the younger one had this brother complex about his twin. So then one day their uncle(??) who really doesn't even look related to them uh took them to another country. Not sure if it's in arabia but it did have deserts.but then for some reason?? The older twin kinda woke up in the middle of the desert.. i think he was injured or something but he was picked up by a future king of a kingdom, thinking he was actually a girl. I remember some stuff more.. I just don't want to make this question long. One hint is that the twins had some kind of tatoo and stuff and the story had magic. Not sure if it's still updating tho... i remember that I used to wait for an update of the manga but it never updated for some reason. Thanks anyways :))
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/1001/