Welp, Mr. Dad, you aren't exactly cutting a fine figure of a man right now. I can understand the frustration with fussy eating, but is this really the hill you want to die on? Especially to trigger all those separation anxiety and abandonment issues your gorgeous lover already explained to you so carefully. Get him to show you his vulnerability and then reinforce it, is that the plan?
Why don't you just give your kid the right to turn up his nose at only two food items in the entire world as long as he eats everything else he's offered, and leave it at that? It isn't like there aren't other vegetables, and the limited right to choose will probably make your life easier. It will certainly be kinder to your lover.
I think you are missing the point of his action. He was trying to prove to his lover that he is not his father and his lover is not his father's new life. He wanted to show his lover that he would never abandon his son, his son is the most important and that his lover was not the type to leave a crying child. He was basically killing 3 birds with one stone. prove to his lover how their situation differs from his father's. get his son to eat something he did not like and also test his lover- I am pretty sure every good parent would want to make sure the person in their life would care for their child.
would have to agree with @marry on this, it may seem like abandonment but , in a way is positive discipline, and the father did not leave his child alone, left him with a responsible adult
Hi marry. Yeah, I was thinking about all those different things, too, and especially about the point someone made earlier that Maki is a single father. That kinda puts a whole new period on the imperative, doesn't it? I don't know, the testing part just seemed like such an act of Kabuki, and then I think about what it's like to be a parent, and yes, testing is good. All these things would've been revealed through the consistent passage of their relationship, but at the same time, it's a manga. There are only, what? 40 pages to get this message across before the next chapter? So, yeah, I forgive that father. Or, rather, I vacillate between "That was so paternalistic" and "Well, yeah, he's a father, so..." ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I'm starting to spin in circles here. Because I agree with that, too. Still, I don't know how kindly I would feel toward someone who tested me like that. It's a big risk to take. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ -
Not sure if it was a test or just trying to show him not all parents are like that
And I considered that, too. He claims it was a test, so .... but you're right, it could be as much a demonstration of self-responsibility to his prospective lover as it is a show of power. It never pays to be overly indulgent with children, but if you're too strict and controlling, they rebel.
The problem with "Sneak Tests" is that once your date and potential partner are aware they are being tested, they are thrown off their natural stride. They fear showing anything but their best bib and tucker, as the saying goes, which defaults to counter-intuitive and ego-driven displays which focus on "becoming" rather than "being". So it's an unnatural and uncomfortable state of being which has the result of being like a mask or veneer of good behaviour which slips once they have achieved their goal, whatever that might be ... partnership, commitment, etc., because it's a goal-oriented process, not a "let's enjoy the journey" state of being. Once they have what they want, they go back to their default personality setting, which is who they were all along and tends to be considerably less shiny. Do you want to feel wary of your date or lover?
It's rough on the reader when you have to kill off a wonderful somebody just to see the uke make out with two hot semes. Apart from that, the tragedy was completely believable given the danger of the sport, and there was adequate foreshadowing. Sentimentality always leaves a bad taste because it's pat and lessens or cheapens the experience of grief as it were, so I could've done without the diary scene. Was it really necessary to go through that? Couldn't we have just heard about how much Chiharo loved Yuki and hoped he would find happiness?
Shirogane reminds me of Tanigura from Sakuragi Yaya's Himegoto Asobi: same world weariness, same side-eye, same capacity to be underestimated, but will surprise anybody who makes that mistake when it concerns something which matters to him. Classic boke character.
First there was the Mystery of the Missing Content. Then Presto! Blammo! Shazzam! It suddenly appeared (after a flag and a helloooo?) Just like magic.
Then there was The Secret of the Missing Story. Not the one about the wizard and the real estate agent who went out house-hunting together, which was all sweet and cute and fluffy and kind of mundane. (I mean, he's a wizard. Can't he just whip up a palace?) No, I'm talking about the story of the Evil, Conniving Stalker who gave our four-eyed megane's cat Six Freaky Eyes. I'm talking about the nail-biting suspense where wizard and salesman hunt down the evildoer together, their narrow escapes and, at last, that thrilling and terrifying showdown with more fireworks, psychedelia and blue genies than a Beatles movie. Because I wanna read that story. And, somewhere along the way, between mortgage amortization schedules and insurance plans and "he loves me, he loves me not" dithering, that story just quietly slipped away ....
Sounds like you may have a magical talent all your own for storytelling
As ever, I am impressed with your story analysis (and your name), I Thot You Was a Toad.
LOL, you read enough of these things, you get a sense for story construction in 200-odd pages. This manga is cute as a button, but, as my writer friends would say, the author buried the lead.
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Σ(っ°Д °;)っI don't really mind my yaoi rockstars having shoujo-girly hobbies like baking bacon cookies or embroidering and beading their very own yakuza shoulder holsters, but I really do prefer it if they are actual boys. Hopeless.
Wtf is with the actual gender role stereotypes? ?? There's no such thing as girly or manly activities
Well, Captain Obvious, I was being facetious and hyperbolic in order to prove a point about the difference between shoujo and yaoi manga, instead of pretending there is no difference, but if you want to go on a self-righteous rant about it, be my guest.
Are there girls who are really THAT stupid? It's like tattooing a big "I was rejected BIG time, and now I is spoiled goods" notice on her face.
Sadly yes
I know. I know. Japanese version of Mean Girls.
I love the allusions. That, while Ohara is crushed by the gravity of his situation, Kawai keeps offering him the wide open sky. Ohara does seem to be opening up.
Great balls of Crackatoa! Somebody actually thinks neckties are a hobby?
That got me snickering. Anyway, with my neck tying skills it becomes abstract art.
IKR? It's right up there with collecting grass clippings for the excitement factor.