Bl where there are two friends. The black haired dude had a sister that said anyone who isn't a virgin should die and the brother doesn’t get it till he has his first love. He realizes that he wants his first love to have their firsts with him only. Time skip where the first love lies saying he met someone because he thought the black haired dude found someone too. Black haired dude threatens to kill him until the first love confesses the truth. First love has dyed blonde hair but brown roots I think???
About this guy who has two childhood friends that are dating each other but include him in their sexual acts. They both feel okay with him being involved. At some point they finger him.
In the second chapter the guy meets this new person who likes him. They eventually start dating. When the friends find out they get mad because they don't approve of the new guy.

Manwha about this girl with purple hair whose sold out to be the consort of the empresses. But shes like a little kid so its just in name. Im pretty sure shes a transmigrator or something because she remembers what happened to the orginal owner of the body. She got killed they the other consorts because they were jealous the empress liked her??? Even tho shes a kid
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_baby_concubine_wants_to_live_quietly/ ?
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