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Yup I was about to say the same thingSight....I wanna read a good mangaaa ╥﹏╥

then adopt one instead of throwing yourself at a man you don't know if you'll love for life just to have a baby.

If you are serious, then you really need to reconsider it. Baby's are not all fun and cute.
They cry, they poo and and they scream. You will be 100% responsible for them for 24/7 a week. Which means that you have a life in your hand. Are you ready to have something like that basically in your control? You are a teenager yourself, but if you have a baby, you have to quickly become a mid 20/30 year or so old, which you are mentally and psychially not ready for. I would strongly recommend you to not want it at that age. This is saying for your own and for the future generations good.

I had a baby boy at 17,and though it turned out fine,and I'm with the father of my children 14 years later,it was NOT easy!!I know for a fact that we both were too young,the father being just 3 years older.I love my family and I'm so happy now,but I wish I was older,I cried as much as my lil baby those first few years!!and I was like you, I wanted to have him,but it was so much harder than I ever thought it'd be.And that's just it,how could i (or you for that matter) ever understand how much strength it takes to raise a child when I was still being taken care of myself at that age?!I am thankful everyday that I had the help I did,and that the father of my children stayed with me through it all.and let me tell you another thing,out of all my friends who ended up having kids early,I am the only one who's still with the same man.and he's the only reason it went so "easy" for me!!Without that and pure luck,I don't know where I or my children could have ended up.So please just think on that before you bring a precious child,who will need YOUR EVERYTHING to survive and to grow up healthy in mind and body into this unforgiving world!!!