Hi guys so I turn 20 in October, and I’m 19 now and a female. So can yall like gimme so life advice I wanna see what I’m in for? Like stuff u wish u got told to prepare for ur 20s pretty pls (⊙…⊙ )
HeloOoOo~ Firt of all...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! ^^
I would just tell you to follow your own rhythm, don't get overwhelmed of the amount of "adult things" you think you should know, you will figure it out, nobody really knows how to dwell with these kind of things at first. Just take your time, and not just for adult things, also for your own personal goals or relationship ones... literally for everything!
I really wish you the best! ^^
its hasn’t been long since i turned that age too but one thing i learned is do not listen to anyone. listening to their advice is ok, its good even. but doing or choosing something just because they told you to do so, it's a big no no. do not do it. if you do not know what to do or what to choose, that's fine! go with your guts, make mistakes, go a little wild. if you want something and someone, like your parents, is against it, fight for it. you can disappoint your parents early on and they will learn to accept it, but i think that is a lot better than being miserable your entire life because you hate the path that you took. aside from that, good luck!!!
Chat I saw my ex today after like half a year and his ass been talking to every single girl on the planet! And I promise I’m not chopped but there’s js no men in my life my age (19) around me ever or at all! I work in aged care so yeah but IM LOSING MY MIND I HATE BEING OR FEELING LIKE IM LATE IN LIFE IM ACTUALLY JOINING MMA SOON TO BE STRING N HAVE MORE MEN IN MY LIFE BUT PLS ANY ADVICE WILL HE GR8(╯°Д °)╯╧╧
girl no worries istg you ain’t late at ALL, im 19 too never even held hands w anyone nor have my first kiss. your ex is a WHOREEE like what the fuck is wrong w him block him irl or something and never see him again cuz he’s weird as hell talking to so many girls like this..
you’re still young you’ll find another bf soon enough, don’t think abt his ass anymore #stinker
HE IS A WHORE BUT IM MAD I DATED A WHORE LIKE FK NOW IM ON HIS ROSTER, (mind u guys it took convincing from nearly everyone that knew us but moving on) I JS FEEL LIKE IM LOSING SOME SORT OF MOVING ON COMPETITION (my ego is bruised can’t believe im being outdone!!) AND IM BORED TOO Fk his ass tho I js gotta be happier in life with a new man that’ll make everything better (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Get a hobby that rlly gets u invested or make some friends. It's not this good to be desperate to get a bf ik this is cliche to say, but trust, ur destined man will come for u. Don't settle for anything just cuz u feel "late". Or else it will backfire if u meet a bad guy. Also, u aren't even late lmao u alrdy dated and ur still 19(same).
Yeah, I get u. I sometimes think that way even tho my ex was the devil, but rlly it's okay(ik it's not.. but like, we just gotta suck it up sometimes. Valentine's rlly made me delusional and think about my ex but whatever). Like srsly, it's rlly easy to get into a relationship. No shade, but a lot of men r easy. Just take it easy and you will meet him.
Also, goodluck on mma!!! Maybe you'll meet ur destined man there.
Chat I wanna read this but idk if it’s good, what kinda other manhwas is it as good as?
if u like a mature older story, omegaverse (alpha x alpha), and stories about moving on from past relationships that haunt you this would be a good fit for you. it starts a little confusing bc mc is one of the love interests of the main couple but this is set like years after the original story ends. i never read the main story and still enjoyed this immensely (although its been a while so my memories are a little fuzzy but i did run back the moment the AU side stories were uploaded bc IVE BEEN WAITING)