People have to understand that she is pregnant and easily influenced by her emotions. People had been talking about the ml cheating and it got in her head. She didn’t believe it but because her emotions were easily influenced, she noticed more little things. These little things plus what people were saying got in her head and she freaked out. At first when she left she just needed time to think and had thought about divorce but hadn’t finalized that she wanted to divorce. Although, the moment she came home again, she saw the bitch and ml together and that finalized her decision. Seeing that helped her finally decide she wanted a divorce. Also, the fact that the bitch is not doing anything to fix the situation is not helping. The fact that she is not trying to deny the situation makes the FL believe that he may really be cheating. In situations where a guy cheats they always deny it, but the woman he cheats with may not deny it. I get that the FL should believe the ML but there are many things that are affecting how she is thinking and her final decision. Overall I do not think she is stupid she is just not in a state where she can be completely rational.
People have to understand that she is pregnant and easily influenced by her emotions. People had been talking about the ml cheating and it got in her head. She didn’t believe it but because her emotions were easily influenced, she noticed more little things. These little things plus what people were saying got in her head and she freaked out. At first when she left she just needed time to think and had thought about divorce but hadn’t finalized that she wanted to divorce. Although, the moment she came home again, she saw the bitch and ml together and that finalized her decision. Seeing that helped her finally decide she wanted a divorce. Also, the fact that the bitch is not doing anything to fix the situation is not helping. The fact that she is not trying to deny the situation makes the FL believe that he may really be cheating. In situations where a guy cheats they always deny it, but the woman he cheats with may not deny it. I get that the FL should believe the ML but there are many things that are affecting how she is thinking and her final decision. Overall I do not think she is stupid she is just not in a state where she can be completely rational.