So I work as a caretaker for children in a kindergarten and obviously that is a job that requieres a lot of interaction with other people. But in my free time I am much more of a introverted person. I reallllly treasure the time I have outside of work and love to spend it alone. I am mostly content with it and even if my friends are sometimes a bit bothered by it, most of them accept it. It doesnt really makes me have problems with my work and I always just assumed, well maybe because I have a job were I have to talk a lot with people, I like to compensate that with spending my free time on my own. But then I really dont like crowds and can get a bit anxious when I have to do shopping, take trains and so on. ( When I am at work its kinda different because its „work“ and a safe enviroment? Idk its difficult for me to explain, sorry ) So for some time now people always think I am lying if I tell them that i am not really much of a sociable person outside of work adn that I wouldnt do that job if I would be a introverted person. Want I want to ask now is, is it really that uncommon to work in such a job with a personality like that? Or iam I not really introverted but have something anxiety issues? I hope I could bring across what I am struggling with, since my english isnt always the best :D <3
I had the chance of working as a caretaker. I'm also an introvert. I like spending my free time at home/to my self and unless it's for shopping/grocery, I'm mostly at home. Your case is common I would say. I know a teacher who said she is an introvert but many were surprised because she was easy-going, free and just social, so.. yeah. You could say, in society (whether it be related to work or just interacting with people) we put personas/masks to socialise with people.
No not all. It just that it is work and youre kinda obligated to work (with kids in this case.) I myself work in retail and i love my collegues etc. but I when i can i just want to stay at home and be alone to do stuff for myself. So it very common no worries!! (⌒▽⌒)
same here- similar work and also love to be alone- though...
take care that it doesnt turn into depression or something. to talk with friends is diffrent than talking with people from work (co-workers and ... clients? (lol))
I mentioned depression bec. when you not only want to be alone...
you said you also suffer from 'anxiety' that could be a hint.
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thank you all for you replies <3 I feel less weird now that I read it is not that uncommon to be like this c: and @ivy yeah i know what you mean, i am having a hard time figuring out if i really just enjoy being alone or if its just "easier" to shut myself out from others :D ( dunno how else to say it ;D ) and thank you for your kind offer <3
hey guys, do you know any websites where I can buy english yaoi novels? I found a few on amazon but I am sure there must be more right? Or a site that has a list of them and where to buy :D?
Well, I'm sure that Tapas has some but in e-book format
best way (I guess, so I do) search for titles. you can use baka-updates. so if you see a title you like, just google it and it will show you where you can buy or if its a fan-trans where you can read for free.
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?genre=Yaoi&type=novel&perpage=50
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?genre=Shounen+Ai&type=novel&perpage=50
also on novelupdates - there are titles, and you can see if licenced or not
https://www.novelupdates.com
Do you mind dropping some titles you’ve liked on amazon? I’ve been trying to search some up, but haven’t found any good ones. Thanks so much!
yeah sure i can give you the links, maybe you have to search them in amazon again since i searched in the german amazon but the titels are in english
https://www.amazon.de/dp/4908049173/?coliid=I26SBMN1M53TVO&colid=2EFMSQ5RN6FIA&psc=0&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it
https://www.amazon.de/S-Yaoi-Novel-Saki-Aida/dp/1569707065/ref=sr_1_3?__mk_de_DE=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&keywords=S+Volume+1%3A+%28Yaoi+Novel%29&qid=1558170999&s=books-intl-de&sr=1-3
thank you, I will check it out!
uhhhh thank you so much, I always search stuff on bakaupdates but it somehow didnt come to me to search there for novels ;D
Hey guys, I am searching for manga, webcomics, whatever there is that are set in a dystopia ?
Hello! Does anyone here know access to a website where I could download "Game Of Thrones Season 7"!? Your help will be considered a dept upon me.
hey guys, I cant load Lezhin or Tappytoon on my pc, it takes ages to load and the sites never really build up fully but it works just fine on my phone. Any suggestions why that might happen and solutions?
okay nvm it works again i just had to restart my router :D
okkk good (=・ω・=)
already had a mini heart attack :DD
hey guys, some time ago I already asked for a certain type of manga butnow I read them all and i am searching for new ones :D
so what i would like to read are BL manga that are kinda similar to yamada to shounen or that one http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hitotsu_shikanai_mono/, or in general, where someone kinda finds his "safe place" in another person and feels secure. Haa sorry i am bad with desribing what i am searching for xD
and thanks in advance for anyone who maybe has an idea since those manga really calm me down :) <3
that was my old post: http://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/3712767/
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i already read the first and the third but i will definitely read the other ones, thanks ! <3
ヾ(☆▽☆) thank you, thats gonna be a great evening :D <3
guys i am confused. is the scene where lan zhan "forced" wei ying to sleep on top of him when he brought him back to gusu already animated in the first season? I rewatched it and i was sure i saw it in it but now i cant find it and wonder if confused it with the manga here
umm i cant answer your question but i can share similar exprience
i remeber that scene when lam zhan and wei ying were in the bath,i saw it in amv and decided to watch mo dao zu shi
butt after finishing first manga and then anime realised that there is no such a scene,later i found out that kiss anime (i watched it there)had all episodes but just not that one where the bath scene was, i think it was 4th or 6th so i basiclly didnt notice that the episodes were like 1 2 3 5 6...
maybe same happend to you
other sites have that ep
are you refering to the bathing scene after they both got punished?
well the site i watched it on has all 15 episodes and it should have been either the second or the last epsiode since that are the only ones where it was that time when lan zhan brought him back but sakjdfaskdf it sure is driving me crazy :D
yeaa after punnishment but i still havent seen that scene.i am gonna rewatch too soo lets see if there is that scene you were talking about.i am not sure anymore either where i saw it
well if its for the bathing scene its in episode 5, somewhere around minute 10 :)
heyy c:
could you guys recommend me some BL with a loooot of comfort and giving the feeling of being safe and stuff?? i want manga that spread the general mood of secureness
I'm not very sure with this comfort and secureness here, but these are what I have http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yamada_to_shounen/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/anata_no_tame_nara_doko_made_mo/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shiro_no_koro/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hitotsu_shikanai_mono/
You've probably read them all ╮(￣▽￣)╭
i read so many yaoi but i havent read any of them so dont worry! and thank you so much <3 :D
So after reading the first one you recommend, I had to come back here and say thank you again!! That was such a beautiful manga, exactly the type I like the most :) I might have found another mangaka of whom I will like everything
Aww I'm glad, and you're welcome (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
so i am searching for two yaoi manga
i dont remember a lot about the plot so sorry its really vague
the first one is about a boy that has a box (?) that he kinda finds in his bag or something and i dont remember what was in it, i think it was a letter or something? i still remember that it has something to do with a guy he already knows and is friends with, not sure if it was about something supernatural or not but i always think it has a supernatural touch to it when i try to remember it
and the other one had a cover that was blue-ish and also about a boy that got letter(s) from someone. if i remember correctly, on the cover, he was sitting somewhere with that letter and another person? could also be that he got the letters from his brother but i am not sure about that anymore or why they werent together
yeah thats all i remember, i hope someone somehow got an idea from that xD <3
Previously we can find manga by just mentioning the cover, but lately mangago have changed cover of many many manga so remembering the cover doesn't work anymore, sometimes.
haaa you are my saviour, I seriously went crazy because I couldnt find those two. thank you so much <3
yeah thats really bad since i tend to remember the covers all the time but not the names <:
Yeah. When anyone asked for manga, the first thing popped up in my head was its cover as well but ended up looking over it since its cover’s changed. Σ( ￣□￣||)
do you guys know some BL manga where someone is getting abused ( mentally/physically - has bruises/injuries/panics when someone gets too close ) but someone notices/gets help from someone/seeks for help ?
like not your typical BL manga where the one who gets abused stays with the one abusing him and comes to love him and stuff.
i already read Sabita Yoru Demo Koi Wa Sasayaku, out of controll and see you again where those topics (kinda) appear too
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/zankoku_na_kami_ga_shihai_suru/
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the help came waaaaaay too late.
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oh damn i forgot about that one, i actually read that and it left me feeling so angryyyyyyyy. but it was so good tho
yeah, the first half of the story had me screaming in fury in a good negative way? lol
hey! could someone tell me which manga that is from?
https://www.instagram.com/p/B9S1CqtJ5zi/
thank you ! (づ￣ ³￣)づ