porn is porn. are yall gonna lash out on a gay man or lesbian woman for watching/getting off to straight porn? who gives a shit whether the porn is gay, lesbian, poly, straight, etc... its porn either way. yall are over-dramatic istg, some of yall have too much of a 'hero/justice' persona that you're over-analyzing every little thing. no one is 'se......
For all the people saying people who masturbate to yaoi are "fetishizing mlm and are disgusting" which is bullshit and just completely rude and shows that you are the ignorant one and obviously need to educate yourself, then listen. We're not getting off to the fact that it's two guys doing stuff together we're getting off on two guys getting off. ......
please the facts i see honestly mfs use the word fetishizing once and think they have a PhD in social sciences
Here's my hot take for this, also coming from a gay man. 1. Skipping this since I'm also gay. 2. "Why are fem characters in yaoi so looked down on and called stereotypes?" Just like how gay society looked down on fem gay? Stop deflecting the issue onto another group when we as. Internalize homophobia and toxic masculinity are still alive and thri......
This is bs. yaoi isn't really for or about gay men. It's egotistical to consider ourselves "fetishized." Come on. We're guests among these fujoshi, and we ought to remember that it's not our world, and not our tribe, it's theirs. It's about the characters they create, not gay men, and they have every right to create their own unique characters.......
bro even a google search will tell you that 'fetish' means 'a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an ***abnormal degree*** to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.' feeling arousal for something ISN'T inherently fetishizing. you can be aroused/interested but not have a fetish for something. don't confl......
STOP WATCHING BL AS A GIRL