i've seen a lot of comments mad about kahara pushing kitagawa away during sex but when you think about it from kahara's standpoint, it makes a lot of sense. he physically sees how kitagawa feels from the colour of the aura so he can somewhat pinpoint what affects kitagawa, in this case is the sexual attraction kitagawa has for kahara. kahara's the type of person to be hyper aware of people as seen in the manga and it's highly likely that he feels guilty for being the cause of kitagawa's absentmindedness. therefore, he rushes and asks kitagawa to have sex with him perhaps in a desperate attempt to fix things.
but i'm really happy that he pushed away kitagawa when he realises that he's not ready for sex. it's one of the most important bases in a healthy relationship, for both parties to be ready for sex, which is an incredibly intimate experience. i do admire kitagawa for not getting mad and blaming kahara and also apologizing to kahara, but too bad his feelings are somewhat in the open for kahara to see which leads to a panicky kahara that might make hasty choices.
so i think it's good that kahara pushes kitagawa away instead of enduring it like most people do in manga. he needs time to discover himself and know what he wants instead of just going with the flow.
Reading this makes me so happy?? Like I felt so sorry for Ai in the first few chapters because he was truly pitiful, often looked down on by people and even sexually abused. But that's where Nagato steps in and just engages him in a very healthy relationship, that's just so very respectful of their boundaries. Nagato is truly one of the best semes I have ever seen and just the healthy loving relationship where they actually resolve problems through communication is just my aesthetic.
y'all are bitching about shiwoo being a slut and shit, i mean he's an adult? He can sleep with absolutely anyone he wants??? If he wants to have multiple partners, he can for god's sake. It's not like he's cheating. He made it absolutely clear to yujin at the beginning that they're just fucking, not dating so why y'all hating on him? Plus, he hasn't even slept willingly with that colleague of his, he basically drugged him and raped him. Same goes to Yujin honestly, what he did at the beginning chapters is unacceptable.
Being nice to Shiwoo doesn't erase the fact that yujin took advantage of shiwoo while he was drunk and not held accountable for him. smh the comments here are so immature it hurts my IQ to read them. all of you are accusing him of being a slut but don't understand what him and yujin has is not exclusive. plus y'all know he's still hung up on his ex, so why the fuck you hating on him? for all you know, it might have been his first love so of fucking course he's gonna be stuck in the past especially if they broke up messily.
another point. why do you hate him for liking sex? specifically if it's not with yujin? sex is understandably enjoyable and he's doing it for his enjoyment so what the fuck do you have to judge him for? and as for not kissing yujin, maybe kisses hold special meaning to him? probably because of his ex. they probably had a shitty breakup and hyun was never that nice to him, so it might be a defense mechanism so he doesn't get hurt by another person. he doesn't want to fall in love because he's hurt by his ex so he tries not to kiss the person he's fucking because feelings are just a huge jumble of mess and they hurt okay? so don't slutshame shiwoo seriously
Aye preach
Well he wasn’t raped by the seme
He enjoyed the sex and even before that he was interested in Yujin and wanted him plus when he woke up he wasn’t drunk anymore but didn’t resist at all. And it’s weird that ppl r so mad and angry about the ‘rape’ I mean there r many other yaoi mangas witch REAL rape and the uke falls in love with his rapist and nobody is mad about that
There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex…but a person who is fine with having sex with anyone sounds like a slut to me
Before u get mad at me let me say that I don’t support any of these two’s actions and they both did wrong
Sex without consent at the beggining is considered rape and clearly the uke is drunk and was taken advantage of wether he enjoyed it or not
Well I don’t care about it anymore and I don’t care whether it was rape or not
But there is something which I care about and that’s there’s something wrong with the story and the whole ex thing
( I posted it before but I’ll say it again )
I’m actually angry but not because the characters but I’m mad the author
I feel like the story progress is taking too long and Yujin doesn’t feel like a main character to me…I mean the whole story is about the uke who still has feelings for his ex and it’d be much much better if Yujin wasn’t a main character
Unless we’re gonna realize Yujin wasn’t a main character at all
Though that won’t satisfy me
The main character is the uke and the author did a goddamn good job at stirring the readers emotions..
Spoilers, but he actually does end up cheating on Yujin after they’ve establish a relationship further into the comic.
PREACH!!!! there are so many assholes who love slutshame ukes on here because they hate "sluts" or are jealous of them.
A slut is a person who sleeps with anyone
And that’s what the uke is doing
Whether being a slut is good or bad,the uke is a slut anyway