I got married recently and lose my virginity and also my first kiss to my husband, at the age of 27. The reason I stayed virgin is because, I dont feel any needs to have sex towards others. I was in girls school until college, and when I got into a co-ed college, I dont feel attracted to them. I was questioning my sexual orientation at one point to......
2018-12-30 14:54 marked
I'm so sad about what happens to this comment section. There are so many people who are so focused on labeling the blonde guy pedophile, that they call everyone, who tries to analyse his character beneath the surface, a defender of pedophile actions. I really hope you don't just push the down vote button and at least read what I have to say, because that's what a respectful discussion is about: Reading, thinking, answering. Not blaming, not bashing or hating.
It has gotten to a point where people who want to talk about psychological circumstances of a FICTIONAL character have to defeat their moral positions.
I really like, that people are protective and have high standards of moral. The question is, how good moral minded can you be, when you say things like:
"So the Blond man fans are shotacon fans too"
"please don’t have children"
and so on.
When someone disagrees with you, you can at least be respectful and hear him out.
What I find sad too: The wrong use of terms that should be chosen carefully!
Pedophelia is a serious illness and nothing that should be used to label someone just because he did something out of your moral standards.
By definition a 'pedophile' is "an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children." So just from the point of offical definition, the blonde guy is not suffering from this illness. It's important, also for people who really suffer from this, to use the term right.
And I read things like: "He literally tried to rape".
Of course, 'rape' means various things to people. Some of them think 'sexual harassment' is the same as 'rape'. Some didn't even see 'sexual harassment' in any of these chapters. I think, 'sexual harassment' fits the situation better, because, and that's just my perspective, he did not intend to have sex with Park in the car. He tried to kiss him, he got pushed away and after that, he did nothing more than listen to what Park had to say. He didn't forced him to anything. And no, of course IT WAS NOT RIGHT! It was just not rape. Please, use words more carefully.
Some people are just to emotional to get their facts right. I like to discuss things, because you learn and get to know other perspectives. In this case, there is no way to reason with people who are so convinced that the world is black and white, and the blonde guy must be to 100 percent an 'evil dangerous boys-raping felon'. There is no way to talk about the various shapes a character has.
And to make it clear: What the blonde guy is doing, is wrong. But:
I really needed to defend the people who just want to discuss things objective. Because I myself feel really missunderstood. I don't defend the blonde guy, at least he is a perverted idoit. But it's so sad, that I have to defend my own moral standards just because I'm saying, he is by definition either a pedophile nor a rapist.
He is not a felon. He is a fictional human. He has many traits and it should just be fun to analyse him as a character in the story. You can hate him as much as you want, you can blame him and curse him.
But please don't treat us like this as well.
2018-12-06 14:49 marked
When did you first lose you virginity