It's my first time answering here haha
In my opinion, DON'T COME OUT YET. Wait and see. Your dad is really homophobic, he might do something to harm you like beat you up or what. Observe the situation, idk how but if u can indirectly ask him "what'd he do if he had a son/daughter who is gay" kind of question (btw dont make it obvious its about you,...... reply
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