All I got to say is look at your parents (it might not be the same for everyone) if they even have an age difference of one or two years (even if it’s 15 years of age difference). REMEMBER!, at one point in time, one of them was under age So stop it.
I have friends that have been part of the foster care. Sometimes, the people that should’ve been taking care of you are the one’s that do most of the damage. Just know that, like the foster care (not all) system is corrupt, know that the school system (not all) is as well. I been through that. But in this case, it’s fictional. Also, would everything change if she were 21 and him in his middle 30’s? Some will say he is a child cradle or manther. Just try doing good first, with other that have been through that, if you’re also trying to end pedophilia. I’m proud of you too!
I mean I personally don’t believe in minors and adults should date obviously it’s just morally wrong and I also really hate the fact that men do groom young girls into becoming their future wives or partners but I also don’t think that age gaps are necessary bad when it comes from a place of genuine love. Honestly my parents have a 9 year age gap and my mom was a minor when she was dating my dad but it was not because my dad was going after her, if anything my dad was super against being in a relationship to start but my mom was always chasing after him and really loved him and when he decided to date her he made sure to be gentleman and never once did anything inappropriate with her because of her young age. My mom said her family kept butting in her and my dads relationship, so she wanted to run away and get hitched but my dad said he didn’t want to do that, he wanted my mom to be an adult and have options especially because of her age, he wanted her to see if she wanted to be with him when she was an adult or be with someone else and said he didn’t want to take that choice away from her. But since my mom was against waiting especially since my grandmother was extremely abusive towards her and stuff my dad asked for her parents blessing to get married with her and they agreed because they knew if they didn’t it wouldn’t look good in front of the family. So now they’ve been married for 25 years already and are soon gonna renew their vows LOL honestly growing up I called my dad a pedophile because he married my mom so young and stuff but I know my dads a good guy and you know love happens in weird ways but yeah we don’t support minors getting it on with adults LOL it was a different time and now it should just not be a thing (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜( ̄∇ ̄")
You know, when it comes to morality there is no bullet proof teachings. Your moral values may not and should not be applied in all cases.
Your story is one of those genuine that i am trying to argue with people who are so against age differences. Its true that one of partner may be viewed as pedophile but it is indeed that not all pedophile are pervert. As i said on a reply to this thread starter, judgment should be base on the actual personality of the persons involved. It is very rude and inconsiderate if we try to force our so called morality when it is indeed not always applicable. Adjustment should be made.
So true honestly I think it’s just something society has not changed since the very beginning but yes it’s something we shouldn’t allow to continue to happen. One thing is when your a minor with an age gap another when your an adult with another adult with an age gap that know each other and other when your an adult with another a adult who don’t know each other in a relationship. Honestly grooming and dating someone younger than you should never be acceptable. Let’s hope for a brighter future with healthier acceptable relationships







Gurl it’s not worth it, don’t do it