If anyone was wondering, that is called the Amazon position, it is very much a real and effective thing but if you’re new to it go slow you can literally break their dick if you don’t do it correctly.
I guess for most people it's because they have a more masculine way of presenting themselves As for me it's just because skeleton is a male noun in french so I tend to struggle and balance in and out of it Bloop bloop
It’s fine to get confused, but presentation and pronouns are different issues. If the author uses he/they then I’d relent but I haven’t seen that
Well ok then Moira Rose