TLDR: Bi/Pan female. It's not an exaggeration to say that BL saved me from growing into a homophobe.
As a kid I've been raised in a strictly catholic religious country, everything gay or lesbian was an insult, absolutely unimaginable.
When my (very open minded in comparison) parents decided to change the country, and I stumbled over shounen ai on...... 1 reply
But to be fair, yaoi is the gay equivalent of hentai, which means it's usually smut and covers different fetishes.
Although I agree that many readers in the yaoi community just go overboard with their seme uke bull, in the end it's porn and it comes on different shapes and forms :B 1 reply