if it helps - im a lesbian too so i understand how you feel. i know how strong the urge to come out can be but it is not worth it when it can put you in danger. if your father is really that homophobic, he can use your sexuality against you in the future to manipulate you (especially when you are still depending on your parents financially). reply
just reading yaoi doesnt make you an mlm fetishizer! im a nonbinary lesbian and i read a lot of yaoi just because i enjoy reading lgbt stories and can identify with them more than with stories about cis heterosexual couples. fetishizing would mean that you support mlm only bc theyre cute or sexy together and associate gay men with sexual positions...... reply
umibe no etranger/harukaze no etranger ! i always go back to that manga when everything else in the yaoi genre is disappointing, nothing beats the beautiful sceneries and the healthy realistic relationship between the two mcs reply
idk where you heard that from but i havent heard any wlw claiming that yaoi was founded by wlw?? its common knowledge that yaoi is usually drawn by straight women for straight women, especially because yaoi couples are often extremely heteronormative (seme = very manly, uke = very feminine).
theres nothing wrong with reading mlm fiction as a heter...... 1 reply
I think I was 13 years old? It was Glamorous Lip by Yana Toboso. Was a big Kuroshitsuji fan back then and was curious if Yana Toboso had other works. Found Glamorous Lip and was horrified hahaha.
I really got into the genre with 15 when Free! aired. A good friend and I were fangirling together and we shipped the characters together, especially Mak...... 1 reply
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