So if someone could kindly (like genuinely kindly cause I don't understand personally all the hate Tak is getting) explain to me that would be great. Let me explain why I don't understand: I do think Tak is idiotic for literally going every step of the way to accommodate Sanho, going as far as to have sex etc when he actually legitimately (but also not legitimately ) hates Sanho, cause I agree, that's stupid how does someone as intelligent as him not get that he loves Sanho, but like, I do agree with him at the end of chapter 75.
The guy you actively have sex with and kiss (atp I assume they are fwb cause they are clearly not in a relationship at this point, and they aren't normal friends) literally tells you IN THE SAME CONVERSATION that he wants you to admit you have feelings for him, while saying himself that he feels disgusted being with you (not taken directly but you get what I mean). What is Tak suppose to think???? Should he have understood that Sanho was just being tsundere and didn't meant it truly? Maybe, idk even I can't tell myself, but any normal person who hears that would feel like utter shit Σ(っ°Д °;)っ! The same person who is telling me that feeling butterflies for me is disgusting, is telling me ALSO that if he knew sex between us didn't involve feelings he wouldn't have started it! Am I not suppose to feel hurt/confused????
Sanho to me acts like a hypocrite. He wants and says one thing, but says and does another. He wants to date/love Tak (of vice versa idk anymore) but says himself that having feelings for Tak is gross. There's hardly any decent communication going on besides them arguing cause they don't understand eachother, or Sanho just drunkenly saying everything he feels to Tak. Why is everyone just hating on Tak when Sanho isn't better ╥﹏╥????
Like I said, I just want to understand, not trying to side with anyone here, so if someone could explain that would be great (⌒▽⌒)
Read back a few times to check if I misunderstood anything, and yeah CORRECTION Sanho said acting couply with Tak feels gross, which is very different from saying having feelings for you is gross. That would make more sense, but I still don't understand why all the hate for Tak. He is not wrong; Sanho wants to end having sex with Tak, but he also insinuates he doesn't want to date Tak (he is trying to get Tak to confess, but doesnt say explicitly that he loves Tak back, nor does he even think of confessing himself), but he also doesn't think going back to being friends is an option. Obviously Tak is going to be confused: what does he want? Just for Tak to confess and then be rejected?? He has pride too. Tak's entire issue is being ignorant of his feelings hence causing this to start, but Sanho is fueling the problem too. Idk I just think both of them are ._.
So if someone could kindly (like genuinely kindly cause I don't understand personally all the hate Tak is getting) explain to me that would be great. Let me explain why I don't understand: I do think Tak is idiotic for literally going every step of the way to accommodate Sanho, going as far as to have sex etc when he actually legitimately (but also not legitimately ) hates Sanho, cause I agree, that's stupid how does someone as intelligent as him not get that he loves Sanho, but like, I do agree with him at the end of chapter 75.
The guy you actively have sex with and kiss (atp I assume they are fwb cause they are clearly not in a relationship at this point, and they aren't normal friends) literally tells you IN THE SAME CONVERSATION that he wants you to admit you have feelings for him, while saying himself that he feels disgusted being with you (not taken directly but you get what I mean). What is Tak suppose to think???? Should he have understood that Sanho was just being tsundere and didn't meant it truly? Maybe, idk even I can't tell myself, but any normal person who hears that would feel like utter shit Σ(っ°Д °;)っ! The same person who is telling me that feeling butterflies for me is disgusting, is telling me ALSO that if he knew sex between us didn't involve feelings he wouldn't have started it! Am I not suppose to feel hurt/confused????
Sanho to me acts like a hypocrite. He wants and says one thing, but says and does another. He wants to date/love Tak (of vice versa idk anymore) but says himself that having feelings for Tak is gross. There's hardly any decent communication going on besides them arguing cause they don't understand eachother, or Sanho just drunkenly saying everything he feels to Tak. Why is everyone just hating on Tak when Sanho isn't better ╥﹏╥????
Like I said, I just want to understand, not trying to side with anyone here, so if someone could explain that would be great (⌒▽⌒)
Read back a few times to check if I misunderstood anything, and yeah CORRECTION Sanho said acting couply with Tak feels gross, which is very different from saying having feelings for you is gross. That would make more sense, but I still don't understand why all the hate for Tak. He is not wrong; Sanho wants to end having sex with Tak, but he also insinuates he doesn't want to date Tak (he is trying to get Tak to confess, but doesnt say explicitly that he loves Tak back, nor does he even think of confessing himself), but he also doesn't think going back to being friends is an option. Obviously Tak is going to be confused: what does he want? Just for Tak to confess and then be rejected?? He has pride too. Tak's entire issue is being ignorant of his feelings hence causing this to start, but Sanho is fueling the problem too. Idk I just think both of them are ._.
He had sex with him while Sanho was sleeping. That's reason enough.
Thanks for telling me! I knew there were some things I missed (๑•ㅂ•)و✧