We the term we call it with also means "cotton candy" some regions call it "daddy's beard"
Approach people with similar interests as you. Look for pins, stickers, photocards, t-shirts..etc anything that can tell you what they are into. try talking to ones with similar interests like a show you watched or manga you read and just start casually like "hey i like this show" or something from there you can build a conversation and hopefully g......