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That was rape.

Like the person below said, consent is clear, coherent, willing, and ongoing.

yes!

No it wasn't rape.
Yes, consent it's important and should not be something that is taken lightly but context also matters and in this SPECIFIC CASE, he's a submissive masochist that don't understand what he is and never experienced something like that before, so he's a little confused, but it's consensual and he enjoys it. In this case, when he says stop it's actually for being overstimulated, being embarassed about how he feels and not with the actual meaning of wanting to stop. He's just blurting the word out unconsciously due to the extreme pleasure he's feeling. I do hope they will eventually learn what is really happening and figure it out safewords but, like I said, so far it's clear that he enjoys and he's consenting, or even starting it, he also came not only came from being spanked and begged to be fucked after being spanked, he just doesn't really understand why he enjoys it and feels embarassed about it. Sure, enjoying something may not always means consenting to it but in his case he also begged to be fucked without being forced in any way to do so, so it's clearly not rape.
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What...?

If safe words were the issue, they should have been implemented before the intercourse. And, might I add, you don’t decide out of the blue you’re going to spank your partner.
It’s something talked through beforehand.

Also it doesn’t make sense that mentally you said he wanted it when at the end of this page: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/legs_which_cannot_walk/uu/iur_chapter-35/pg-5/
He thinks to himself ‘I don’t want this’

It doesn’t matter if he’s a masochist in denial, no means no. And he quite clearly says no and stop.
It’s a bodily reaction to become aroused, but that doesn’t mean he ‘wants it’


Also, let’s say that wasn’t rape. That doesn’t change the: sexual assault, threats, etc.


It was quite clearly rape. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

lmao, only reason I’m reading this is to see crutches’ boxing career.

Yes, you're completely right.

He, who has never experienced something like that, probably doesn't even know what is BDSM, doesn't know what he is or understand why feels what he feels but he should've had a really specific converstion about it in the first place.

Yes, he did start spanking him out of blue, he didn't give one slap and realized that his partner enjoyed and decided to keep going based on his respective partner reaction.

Yes, he never stated in any of his thoughts that he wanted more, enjoyed, liked or was confused on why he felt that way and the "I don't want that" was really realated to the sexual act and not his feelings of not understanding his own mentality and thinking that wanting something like that is not normal.

I'm sure that he also doesn't have a strong personality, ego, sense of independence that would make difficult for him to understand/accept the fact that he like being dominated in bed. I think he also isn't a ex profissional boxer that even with one of his legs being badly hurt still can beat tugs and can defend himself if neccessary.

Now let's not forget that in the chapter he gets hurt and the seme shows up he wasn't thinking about how the seme had threatened to punish him and he's not wanting to be punished and wondering why the same isn't doing so and why he wants it.

Oh, he also has never iniciated or wanted to do any sexual act with the seme, he did not complain about the same pulling his dick out and he didn't beg to be fucked right after being spanked, because that would make obviously clear that not only he was enjoying but he wanted more.

Did I forget something? ヾ(❀ -◡-)ﾉ~

Oh, sorry forget to add that I really wasn't SPECIFIC about consent, context and the meaning of "stop" in that specific case.

I'm sure I also wasn't really specific about how enjoying something doesn't always mean that you're consenting to it but that IN THAT SPECIFIC case it was consensual.

I'm horribly wrong, ashamed and I deeply apologize. (￣∇￣")

I have this strange feeling that I keep forgetting things since the uke was really never in a abusive relantionship with his ex and he definitely isn't terrified of his ex. I mean, he clearly was never comfortable around the seme and has never stated how the seme makes him feel safe.

That's so weird... (⊙…⊙ )

Off topic, this has gotten so passive aggressive, I love it.


Let’s just agree to disagree, because this is getting nowhere.

Wait now I’m confused

Wait, okay. I think I got it.

Like I said before, agree to disagree.

It's something more like "I tried to politely explain the situation since, there's so manny signs (obvious ones and not so obvious ones) of what really is happening if you look at the entire picture instead of focusing in one word, one sex scene, one chapter and people are basing things off their own personal preference/experience/what they think it's happening or what they think should've happened but forgetting that you're not born fully educated in every subject and how having a personality but liking things that are the opposite of it can be confusing/hard to accept. They're also ignoring the important fact that their country ,specifically, is really close minded and not really open about sexuality (not only kinks or preferences but sexual life in general), LGBTQ+ and even mental health in the first place so, I just gave trying to explain things up and I'm going to agree with everything or try to make fun of it since people are not seeing the real situation or understand what's actually happening anyway and instead they're throwing words that have such a strong meaning, that are really important in places they don't belong, not only taking away the actual meaning of the word but also spreading more missconceptions about it, forgetting how context is important in every situation and helping create a prejudiced vision about certain things" than being passive agressive, but thanks for loving it.

I tried to make it sound funny, I think at least I managed to do that. I hope you're having a good day and I share your point of view, let's just agree in disagree because it really wasn't going nowhere.
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Uh...sure.

Yeah. Thanks. I hope you’re having a good day as well.

your not alone ⟵(๑¯◡¯๑)

JAILL

I was so heartbroken too. Like I can't even imagine what getting those memories were like and to compare them to now. I'd probably off myself as well. Lucy was too good.