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I really hate how so many BL authors see having sex as being ‘conquered’. I guess it fits with all the dub-con and rape elements in a lot of yaoi.
It’s always the bottom who’s ’conquered’ and I have a couple of reasons why I think that is. But associating sex with ‘conquering’ means that you’re touching someone who says no. Cause if both parties agree that’s not ‘conquering’.
Like is it the market?? Do gay relationships in manga only sell if there’s rape/dub-com?? Do authors think people enjoying sex isn’t sexy??? Like I don’t understand??
Cherry Magic, Given, Yuri on Ice have all done financially well. What am I missing? It’s so confusing trying to figure out why so many authors can’t write sex scenes.