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Ikr ?!

Unfortunately Vol.4 is not out yet

yo who downvoted on this

Nah, cirrus gonna be a mess. He prob not gonna care about the gossip, but candy?? And skylar gonna make a big deal about thay gossip. Gosh these poor boys

but like the parents don't seem to have genuinely reflected on their mistakes and apologised (PROPERLY without excuses and deflecting blame on him). imo it felt super cathartic when he said his mom did smth to deserve that treatment because that's EXACTLY what they said to him. i think you're a sweetheart for sympathizing with the mom but i personally wouldn't do as eunyung did but i would feel absolutely no sympathy for her in eunyung's position.

I agree with this I think this chapter was purely to show how much of a hypocrite the parents are, the dad says he will stop drinking yet for “celebration” tries to sit anyway as if if he does it while happy it will change how eunyung sees his drinking habits, moreover the moms absurd too. I understand children can be crazy sometimes esp someone like eunyung that was a strong mindset, however she has continually told eunyung that she’s sorry but he should understand cus he was “too much” as if abuse at a young age isn’t “too much” for a child either. Her entire speech I honestly just wanted to laugh cus she cried on about how she forgave them for mistreatment and how she wishes she could have had revenge, but blames eunyung for being too hard and crazy when he does exactly what she claims she wanted to do to her parents. Just because eunyung smiles or goes out or does things, people assume he is fine but we have seen in more cases than one how genuinely resentful and hateful and unhappy eunyung is. They are asking forgiveness from a stranger. If I were eunyung I would hate that too. :(

wait nah guys i completely agree w u, i said this in my last para but maybe not explicit enough

im j also saying eunyung is just lowkey a bit crazy, his parent's excuses and lies are pathetic like it's actually absurd how casual they are about it too like them trying to say u deserved all those beatings bc u were naughty like?!?! hell nah, but i'm also just saying that eunyung has a crazy mindset, probably developed due to the abuse, but im j trying to say a majority of other kids in the same situation probably wouldnt have flipped out in the way he did. like how many kids do u see who have gone thru abuse try to actually flip it back on their parents (I personally haven't anyways apart from in movies or tv shows)

the gaslighting from the parents is still crazy tho esp all this effort after their son started sending money back ugh i wish he rly didn't and just sent them pics of him looking smug in expensive clothing or sth instead to piss them off

i completely agree that the mum is being so hypocritical and putting double standards on her son, im j saying tho that when people vent in general they also do that its not weird that she is, just super fucking annoying that she's doing this to her own son

(in regards to the sympathy part i think im j too big of a softie so personally i would feel sympathy for the mum to an extent still but im the type of person to feel sympathy but not act upon that if ygwim )

Haha dw I wasn’t trying to imply anything about you I was just wording my thoughts cus I nested to talk about this ordeal, it’s quite sad but I also don’t think eunyung is sending money back from uhh like the softness of his heart? I can’t find the words but , someone said that they are basically conditioning eunyung to “buy his freedom” and that’s why he sends money and I think the past instances of him giving money to his parents was so that he doesn’t have to “owe” them anything which is ridiculous, but also goes to show he will borrow money from horrible people and be in debt rather than be in debt to his parents cus he doesn’t want them to use that as an upper hand against him later on. I only think this is because I lived thru something similar and that’s what this feels like. Idk what eunyung is planning p, I know for sure he isn’t being kind to them cus he wants their approval like haejoon said, this kid is crazy but I guess that’s what happens when you raise a kid worse than an animal, it’s so sad. :(

youre so real for this cuz im not sure either. i cant see myself acting like skylar in his situation so its hard for me to put myself in his shoes

Move at least three districts away and change my name, or get ahead of it and tell the person I took pics of some semi-believable lie before their friend tells them the truth, like ‘it’s for an art project about the teenage experience through high school, it was high concept and I needed dozens of photos from each day to use for a giant collage’ and then add in another lie on top of that like ‘if Cirrus says different, he’s trying to slander me, he’s a snake and you should drop him as a friend tbh.” And then I’d still probably move a few counties away from the school bc there’s no way they’re believing me

Jump or move somewhere far far away

okay all of u r saying ud move away but how r u gonna convince ur parents to do that w/o them sending u to therapy or thinking ur insane

‘Mom I’m getting bullied at school, can I please go to a different one’ it’s p simple if you have decent parents

oh yh i forgot i could just lie kinda abt why i wanna move

Lmfaooo I forget that real life people forget they can lie and that’s why I think the whole ‘I can’t escape bullying trope’ is unrealistic because the protag refuses to try lying to any adult or their parents to escape their situation, but you’ve just proven it isn’t actually that unrealistic lmfaoo

Like all I’m saying is if I was being bullied, I’d be calling 911, my mom, the feds, my homeroom teacher, the homeless guy down the street. One thing I’m absolutely NOT doing is keeping my mouth shut, and if they’re spreading rumors about me, the bully is about to get talked about in anonymous ‘concerned’ emails to the faculty, the kid’s parents (linked in gives you modern day access to all your classmate’s parents’ contact info), and counselors at my school about their drug use or gang involvement.

Speaking as someone who was bullied, the high road never works. Once I got into middle school my childhood friend started to bully me and slap me and trip me as well as slash up my bicycle that I took to school. One time I got tackled by that childhood friend and I kneed their face so hard I knocked out three braces. I’m not good at fighting, it was the ‘older sibling chases you into a room and you get on your back and start flailing’ kicking move that clipped their chin, but they stopped harassing me physically after that. They then started calling me all sorts of shit and accusing me of peddling drugs so I stripped the coating an adhd pill for a med that I was prescribed and went to the counselor saying they were pressuring me into giving them my medicine. When you strip adhd pills, you take off the time release coating and it’s common behavior addicts or abusers do, so when I showed it to the counselor they immediately called the person down. They couldn’t defend against it because it’s hard to prove you’re not doing something when you really aren’t doing it and the burden of evidence to vindicate you doesn’t exist. They didn’t end up getting in serious trouble bc their parents didn’t believe my lie, I was fine bc they stopped bothering me, and they’re still horrible people and I wish them the worst so overall lying works <3

The police did briefly get involved since my adhd meds are a controlled substance and they confiscated the stripped pill, since I was still a tween, my parents just took the bottle to make sure I wasn’t giving the pills away and kept an eye on me just bc the cops had a serious talk with them. I wouldn’t recommend doing this tho, my town happens to be extremely rural and small and if I was in the US I’d have probably gotten taken into the police station or something

hell you were fighting for ur life my gosh respect to you for handling it in such an underhand way (don't take offense to that what u did was hella smart)
adding on to the lying to parents thing tho i think personally im a shit liar icl like id be lying for the beginning maybe in a sufficient manner, but ik my ass would get caught up abt it one day by my parents, plus id feel somehow shit abt lying to my parents abt stuff so g4u that u know how to survive but im honestly a fat mama's/dada's kid who can't lie for anything soo