Baby Jaerim's Topics (342)

I am into BDSM, I'm part of the community and have it incorporated into my relationship and I'm also not fucking with this at all.
There are not safety constraints set up, this is psychological torture which can be consensual if you've outlined that first. This is horrible.

Same. My main issue is honestly just the gaslighting about the dog barking. Like no amount of aftercare can fix that idk man. Making him think multiple days passed in one is one thing. Heck setting him up for failure to torture and punish him is pretty standard. Lying and giving him a placebo pill is fine too.
But gaslighting him into feeling like he’s hallucinating without some level of pre-negotiation? Idk about that man. It’ll take more than just a few days of aftercare to undo the effects of it.

Yeah technically he did give open consent and knew he’s gonna be pushed to the limits in every way. But there’s just something off about the way it’s depicted here. That being said sub isn’t safe wording nor showing signs that his dom should step in and end it for him.
This scene coulda been depicted to be more fun

Absolutely, this scene could have been incredible but it's depicted in a bizarre way, and is absolutely not something I would expect from my dom.

The gaslighting is wild and as you said no amount of aftercare is going to fix that especially when he has a lot of unresolved trauma in regards to his drug/rape situation.

I'm all for consensual not consent and free use. This is just weird.

I also don't think he's been sleeping for days, I think the dom is lying to him about how much time they're spending there. I would genuinely hate for my play to be this ambiguous

Agreeed, and I’m someone who enjoys BDSM on a more pure, raw not just sexual level. I like psych torture and lying to my sub about what I’ll do/ am actively doing/ disorienting them etc… it’s very fun with the right person but it’s def *not* for everyone and it’s not depicted well here at all. Plus to make someone who’s already experiencing mental trauma believe they’re losing it/ hallucinating? Idk about that. Too soon. And psych torture in general is definitely something you’d want to be explicit about and mention separately and clarify cuz most ppl don’t assume this lvl of it, let alone any, would be a part of open consent or even cnc.

Missed opportunity fr fr. Especially since most manhwa involving BDSM elements only stick to the more vanilla parts. The one time we get something more involved, it turns out like this. Rip

It's a flashback to na-in's former life where he first met Amon. He's been slowly having flashbacks of things that he's forgotten and that he's kept from remembering with the rituals.