"I like you, you like me, but we are best frens, we cannot be lovers" okay just multitask then? You can be friends AND lovers? "But but but if we break up, I'll lose you as a fren" then just stay on good terms? Not all break ups are bad. "But but but butttt what if I still love you, it will hurt to see you love someone else" grow up? Move on? Life ......
Marrying a child you raise, it's way too normalized, and they always trying to justify this with " the reincarnated soulmate" excuse, idc it will always be weird for me