How do I edit my post and how did people think my post was about yaoi being male centered oml (NO FUCKING SHIT I JUST SAID EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD IS ALREADY MALE CENETEREDDD)
it was about people saying YOU ARE (female) being male centered for reading yaoi when in reality who tf cares abt these males. Oh my gosh the replies are braindead how tf di...... 2 reply
1. Can’t say, don’t remember. There’s a timeline where anime comes first, then manga, then manhwa and manhua and last would be light novels. I’ve been into watching anime since I was young but I think mostly for everyone people started off with WEBTOON app as their first experience with comics! And maybe watching some on YouTube. But gettin...... reply
Popular Yaoi and BL work comes from mostly countries that is very patriarchal, like Korea, China and Japan. Basically it’s popular among women that been oppressed by the male society norms or whatever u get it. Female readers can enjoy the romance without projecting themselves into the traditional female roles. It creates a safe space to explore ...... reply
Guys after THE website got taken down, and now another one got taken down recently. I’m so scared I can’t imagine same thing happening to mangago. I love this website too much and I’m still heartbroken over the other website. Like even loads of anime sites are getting taken out. I hear the damn saxophones near this end brooo. Also after THE website got taken down, many other more will migrate here but if they take this one down where else will we all go to? </3 I actually can’t I’ve been so scared I love this website sm
Oh my god since my last post blew up and people just ran with the title and literally understood nothing about my rant. TBH I regret putting it on my title since I just wrote it thinking it matched.
I’m unsure if even people will understand this, though some replies in my last post actually understood what I was trying to say.. thanks for that!! You are queens!!
The feelings evoke too much on me when I was writing (very much so because I was frustrated af). I’m not looking for any male centered people to interact with the post since it’ll be hard for them to actually relate to it or even take one step to understand. It’s like asking the enabler for the abuser why they are defending the abuser.
And if u don’t want to understand that’s fine u can just ignore it.
So firstly, everything in the WORLD is male centered, we live in a patriarchal world that literally means everything was always for men. I KNEW yaoi is male centric because wow I’m so shocked because it features fictional MALES! I didn’t know that!!! Wha?
My frustration was people thinking women (NOT GAY MEN LIKE THE REPLIES SAID) are male centered for reading yaoi which was literally created for women. And vastly my point was ME, someone who doesn’t even like men and has very much distaste, hate towards them, getting called words that means you actually give a fuck abt men. That was my frustration! Because I don’t.
Not that gay men reading yaoi are male centered??? Nor about how I somehow didn’t know that yaoi is male centered ??? Also I do not know where people bring up yuri for, that’s something entirely different and I literally read the genre if I do find someone that I’d enjoy - just like any other sort of manhwa or genres. But my frustration was on people not really the whole yaoi itself
But after my post I realized how many women who were reading yaoi actually very indeed male centered and upholds the men are better idea + zero of understanding the patriarchy as a whole. I saw posts mentioning that and I didn’t agree with it until now. TBH that just sucks but as a true women supporter I already knew the biggest enemy is actually just women themselves.. and yeah if you didn’t understand this well it’s fine no need, thanks for your time
And I’m not gonna go in the misandrist explanation of why hating men is not the same as hating women it’ll just be useless topic. And I only mentioned irl gay men because unlike straight men, some of them actually do see women as humans and not objects. Are some of them still misogynistic? Yeaaaa
My thought was more like yaoi characters shouldn’t be represented as real life gay/queer people because yaoi is more of a coping mechanism that women authors BASES of cishet males! Not actual gay people and their struggles. Does that mean every yaoi female author writes it wrong? Nah, because there are still really good works produced by them that actually can represent gay men. I’m talking abt literally yaoi that are just hella smutty and toxic af that most of us actually do read and is hella popular which shouldn’t define gay people as a whole. Because they are fictional yaoi characters that authors based on straight ass men.
Will there be readers that understand this post? Hopefully! and if you still didn’t get it or wanted to try and understand it’s fine no need.
Man I’m so done with this bullshit, everything is already male centered literally the whole fucking world is. How the fuck do dumb retards think having an interest for yaoi is the same as being a pickmeisha whore. I hate men I hate men they r fucking evil worse than devils. Like I can’t give one single fuck about these disgusting bastards and the BL community is like the ONLY community that exist and is dominated by women(thank gosh). Gay men and yaoi men aren’t even the same shit one is fictional for coping fantasy bc the cruelty of the world and the other one is the Irl of the shit. The only thing they both have in common is that these toxic yaoi characters and irl males are still bastards in the end of the day. I only can be friends with gay men, not straight bastards and a gay man that actually cares for women will straight up tell you men ain’t fucking shit. I love my gay friends and even then the misogyny is leaking from em. But hey at least some of them know men are disgusting beings. Sometimes I wonder if yaoi female readers genuinely give a shit abt irl men. Being called a fetishizer for reading yaoi when I wish all men would just die.
Idk if it’s just me but whenever I read some straight or queer or specifically, downright degenerate toxic yaoi most of the time. Tell me why the supposed obsessive ”POSSESSIVE” toxic abusive top with an high ass ego lets his bottom get banged/raped by others? And they also participate at one point. Like how can you share other males cum and dna ? Ts some Bonnie blue. And then u the audacity to act so possessive too?? It’s so fucking pathetic I wish they all ended up like the top in no reason kinda where the bottom won’t even recognize the top and keeps wanting to get fucked and it doesn’t matter if it’s the top. So then the top feels miserable and is a pathetic looser cuz the bottom dgaf about him and is already at lowest point either way. And they don’t deserve any other bottoms either. AND actually should get topped in their ass instead. I know it’s mostly these Korean yaoi authors who write and draw this type of shit. It makes me think they all got cheated on or some shit to enjoy NTR in their works as a way to cope.
Bro NTR hentai work gotta be some degenerate shit only because the one who get cheated on actually doesn’t even try to leave or take revenge like a pathetic fucker and it just makes you think they deserved to be cheated on for being such a wimp. And it’s always the innocent dumbass. Like why is NTR only for them??? Why can’t there be a story where the one who is abusive, shitty, narcissistic, a bastard is the one who gets NTR instead?? Like our toxic exes that we should’ve just cheated on instead. I don’t know where I got this annoyance from. And if you like these type of genres then ok go read ur thing.
Sometimes I ask myself if my brain is just too conservative or old fashioned minded because I genuinely don’t like any sign of fake loyalty and cheating. Is it because of past trauma and relationships? Like even with friendships it’s hard to find loyalty. I think we actually need a new genre called LOYALTY. We all know these type of yaoi tops are insufferable but now I’m wondering why these authors make this shit. I wonder if anyone feels the same… or is it just me..
So like I don’t know if that post is still up but I remember back in like maybe 2022-2021? Idk but I came across a post of someone saying a story of how they had a crush on their step bro and confessed and they kissed?? In here in mangago Not gonna lie that reminded me straight out of a yaoi lmao. I wish I could find that post again since I just remembered it now I don’t think people in here sharing about their life would lie but I wonder if some of yall also remember a crazy story that someone posted here
