First time I saw a man in a bl or yaoi giving a warning that they’re abt to kiss (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I think a saw it a handful of times before, don't recall when though. It was something like: "if you don't like it, push me away" rather than slap, because like the seme said, a slap is indeed nasty on the eardrums lol
Indeed, however most characters just go in for the kiss without any warning #－.－)
BIG FACTS
I wish little sister would just give substitute a good kick in the shin (￣ε(#￣)Σ