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Puberty hit i guess..they grow up now

This is actually the timeskip after the last Christmas special when He Tian came back home. Considering XiXi is probably in college and they can drink i’d say they are at least 20.

ohhh is that so. then ill have to re read again to connect them althogether in my head thanks whahsha

To make it easier, all the specials (holidays) are in the future

no thats not the point... like yea hes scared bc of his past experiences but that doesnt change the fact hes been playing w pres mo feelings
lil bro is traumatized and shit but hes still being really cruel to pres mo

I beg to disagree. Everyone has been through rough and traumatic experiences but it’s not an excuse to be a shitty person towards someone who loves you more than anyone else in the world. This is plainly bullying and taking advantage of Mo’s feelings because Nuo knows Mo likes him. He either ends this completely and stop sending Mo mixed signals or just wake tf up and probably admit he loves Mo and return the same love he had been receiving so far. Mo deserves someone who would actually value AND LOVE him. He’s precious. If I were him I wouldn’t even look at Xiao Nuo’s way because of how he’s being treated.

No bcos if you say that everybody goes through shxt then thats just invalidating xiao nuo's trauma. And I do hope too that he sees how president mo's ultimate love for him but I still argue that he's to scarred to the bone to see that. I just know hes fighting with himself too.

I am not invalidating his trauma, I am just saying it is not an excuse to treat someone like shit or lead someone on. I understand his troubles, but he could resolve it without hurting anybody, which is what he is currently doing. What he needs to do is recover from it or be on top of it, and away from Mo. he can come back once he’s ready and done confusing and sending mixed signals.

So do you think if someone has been traumatized by their previous lovers should go around doing the same with others? Is that how we should “validate” their traumas? So they are excused for hurting others because they are in pain or their traumas should be validated? This is the point I am trying to make. We all have our own demons and traumas, but that doesn’t justify our wrongdoings. We should still know what’s right and wrong. Nuo knows what he should not do, but keeps doing it because he is conflicted—hence, hurting Mo. He should stop leading Mo on until he had overcome or become stronger that his traumas eating him up, and come back. He is just being selfish for keeping Mo to himself but not willing to return his feelings. So tell me, is this the right thing to do? Does this “validate” Nuo’s trauma?

I'm also not disregarding the fact that president mo is hurting but rather xiao nuo's pain is making it difficult for him to see that others is also suffering from his own actions and trauma. And besides I think, no, I still stand that its also not intentional for nuo to act all that way because he wants too. And may I also just remind that the "unintentional way" of hurting president mo rn is not the same thing that he experienced with his past lover in which way you claim hes been going around traumatizing president mo the same way so I dont think its even appropriate to compare. His ex was a cheater and their status with president mo right now is complicated because they had different views of what happens after moving in together when president mo asked. Maybe his character was even made that way to to let us see this side of president mo. Bet the next chapter would be the resolution we all are hoping for which is him acknowledging his feelings for mo more than whatever troubles him. Because thats how he is like. So just like what I said, we cant just hate or judge how he is acting yet because its all a valid action from someone who is traumatized.

With your statements you’re basically defending the toxic behavior of Nuo, and that doesn’t sit right with me, unfortunately. Whether intentional or not, he is still wrong, and you saying that we should not hate him for it is unfair—we have every right to be disappointed about his actions. You saying it’s “valid” to act that way is because he’s traumatized is still very much wrong. I guess you could say it is “expected”—or valid, maybe, BUT STILL WRONG. Hence, us getting mad about it.

Now that you also agree that his behavior could be considered valid, I dont know what to say more because my only point from the very start was the matter was not something to the extent of hating xiao nuo yet. At the least yet. And besides, if we look at this closely, xiao nuo alr is moving away from president mo but its president mo who is clinging, wanting for more explanation from xiao nuo previously in which I understand because its a sudden i dont know if I could call it a break up. Anyway, this is another point that you cant also hate on xiao nuo that much because he did what he could to not let their rs any further to avoid more pain to president mo but the circumstances obv are not working with the nature of their work. Sure, you could be disappointed with how things are working or developing rn but I stand by not hating on xiao nuo.

Then go ahead, seems like nothing’s going to change your mind anyway. Continue “not hating” on Nuo and validating his “traumas”. But to me, he is an absolute piece of shit, and you are not going to change my mind either. I believe most people agree with me though. It’s hard to defend that kind of attitude. Also, actions being “valid” does not mean they are “right”, you might be confused with what I said. Anyway this is the last time I am responding to you so ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ