I’m looking something like Blood bank or Saezuru Tori ha Habatakanai, where the bottom is more experienced or into stronger kinks than the top who eventually gets to enjoy the dynamic
Any yaoi in which the bottom is a bigger freak, and the top is not into subdom or topping at the start but gets into it later (the more the top is confused by it the better).
The way this author manages to make both characters manly, have a personality but still follow the funny tropes needs to be studied in yaoi school