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She loves to cook, she loves to eat. I'm currently trying to collect the physical copies, it’s so hard to find them in my country.   reply
6 days
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Imagine losing your virginity to Jinx characters . I'd rather kms   2 reply
9 days
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Innever really noticed it but now that you point it out…yeah it’s weird af. It's such a shame because the anime is so cite and the animation is well done as well. I wish we could have other BL animes from mangas with much better storylines and no weird pedo shit   reply
19 days
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Huh, it’s funny bc I don't see AI slop that much here?? Also I joined in 2020ish I think but I still didn’t have an account back then lol. I miss seeing some accounts here who loved to comment really funny things. Also the asks were memorable as well.   reply
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The concept of dom Sanji and sub Zoro speaks to me greatly.
5 days
Sometimes I try to imagine main love interests who have sexually assaulted their "loved one" be put together in a jail. How big would that jail be? Which characters should be there?

I'll start with the teacher in Hitorijime my Hero. Bro's straight up grooming a literal child . He should be in jail.
22 01,2024
So I came out to her months ago, told her I'm bi and non-binary. Then she brought up that she's scared of gay men since the one she met during her childhood kept on pulling her hair. She's also apparently scared of feminine gay men who likes make-up and feminine things because they're to "flamboyant". This all made me feel uncomfortable, I told her that just because one gay child was mean to you before doesn't mean that everyone will be.

Months later, we met again. She brought this shit up again. I don't want to discredit her experience with a mean person but lumping a whole marginalized group into your "bad idea" of someone is downright bigoted. I don't know how to confront her about this.

The more uncomfortable part is that she likes reading BL and would use the terms bottom and top. She even shared a gay sex meme and used those two terms. It's just so uncomfortable to witness especially when she says that she's "scared" of gay men but would actively consume media that portrays romantic and sexual relationships between men.
15 11,2023