Recently, me and my bf of 5yrs got into an argument where it led to us not talking for four days, then when we got to talk we decided to go back to how it was again, the reason why we got into the argument in the first place is because he was busy helping out his aunt around their house to fix the interior, but the thing is, the night we argued is when he didnt connect my words where i said i cant find any transportation to get me home after work and that i was forced to walked alone at midnight. Now back to the present, lately im noticing that he's not updating me like he used to, not even a good morning or a simple im here playing with my friends. What should i do?
Recently, me and my bf of 5yrs got into an argument where it led to us not talking for four days, then when we got to talk we decided to go back to how it was again, the reason why we got into the argument in the first place is because he was busy helping out his aunt around their house to fix the interior, but the thing is, the night we argued is when he didnt connect my words where i said i cant find any transportation to get me home after work and that i was forced to walked alone at midnight. Now back to the present, lately im noticing that he's not updating me like he used to, not even a good morning or a simple im here playing with my friends. What should i do?
You should have a conversation with him. If he ignores you
I think talking with each other and figuring things out is the key. After all you guys cannot read out eachothers mind.
I need more context before I give an opinion but if I had to respond to what you just said- he's being sassy , don't argue just return the energy
communication is key, from what ive seen there was a gap in the communication and talking with each other would help smooth things out