dede's Questions (20)

where can i watch this? it keeps getting taken down

Careful, the creator knows and won't let anyone take her videos.

I am a patreon of Lewin, and there hasn't been an upload since April 1st. I believe that hyperventilation only has 6 episodes, because the 6th episode is has END within the title.

did u see her recent post ??

He/she probably miss you

^^^^

How many years have you been studying it?

2nd year start this Sunday

you can still change major. people i've known changed major 2 to 3 times.

I feel u, i'm going trough the same shit ╥﹏╥

most people change their major 3 times before graduating. theres no problem in changing it especially if you dislike it so much. i say go ahead and do it

Switch if you hate it, you won't want to keep doing it for the rest of your life (although my friend did this - a lot - took her 7 years to do a 4 year degree)

i just graduate, and oh God, architecture is no joke, i feel like crying and all but,,, well,,, i happen to graduate for reason i don't know. just keep fighting!

that is so me! so glad that i'm not the only one!
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My mom took 4 years changing her major and finally settled with the one she wanted. Go for whatever major you'd like do to! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Honestly change your major. It isn't worth it if its gonna affect your health and not make you happy. You should do something that you have passion for and will make you happy.

the problem is college in my country is really expensive and i already studies architecture last year and then quit it.so i feel my parents wont let me change again and won't me to settle

the problem is college in my country is really expensive and i already studies architecture last year and then quit it.so i feel my parents wont let me change again and won't me to settle

aigooo my architecture fellow, nice to meet you.

Maybe try and save up money? I don't know what else to say sorry but honestly if you carry On With this major you surely won't be anymore happy. I think maybe discuss this with your parents? Or even friends? Do you know anyone who has changed major? Is there any possible way if getting a scholarship?

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YES ,thx :)

Stay strong(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ what will you be studying?

pharmacy ,2nd year

Nope you're screwed.
LOL

I found my soulmate.
I feel the same as you tbh.
Sex in Yaoi looks is alright to me but thinking about dicks in real life NO THANK YOU.

I mean I did fall in love with a guy few years ago but thinking of having sex is just gross to me.

Enjoying sex doesn't have anything to do with being asexual.

I can't relate but I dont think you are an asexual. You just dont like sex because it looks disgusting but try feeling it. If 2D turns you on its normal :)

Pretty much the same here. Just, to me it's usually with the seme position. And it's not exactly wanting to be one, but it's complicated to explain.
But if you want more opinions, maybe you could go to some ace communities like aven.

Asexuals can get turned on. What makes a person asexual is the lack of sexual attraction. Getting turned on, having a libido, being sex repulsed or not sex repulsed, these are all separate things. And being turned on by something 2D doesn't mean you will get turned on by something 3D.
Also, you really shouldn't suggest someone try having sex. The OP knows what their sexual orientation is. You don't have to have sex with a giraffe to know you wouldn't like it. Some things are just obvious to a person. This is one of those things.

yo soulmate ^_^ .u know what ,i actually used to watch porn when i was in 6,7,8, and 9th grade and i was totally ok with it but now i just find everything about real sex gross

i'm confused. how is you being ace relevant?

coz it seem that i only have sexual attraction to yaoi characters

Okay?

umm what?

lol sorry just didn't get why we were talking attraction since the concern seemed more along the lines of being sex repulsed which is unrelated. my bad just forget it lol

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Me too (ﾉ^ヮ^)ﾉ*:・ﾟ✧

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I don't hate doujinshi but I don't like it as well. （￣へ￣） I always maintain a distance from doujinshi cos I agree it totally ruins it for me to see the straight characters that I love from other genres to be shipped that way. (╬￣皿￣)凸

But what about doujin about characters who are gay, or even doujin with no romance at all? I mean, saying you hate all doujinshi because you don't like shipping straight characters in gay romance is kind of overly broad.

Anyway, I don't really like it either, but for me it's more because I loath the whole "gay for you" thing, and it's used pretty heavily in that context. If I'm reading manga with LGBT romance, I want them to actually be attracted to their partner's gender in general, otherwise I'm really never going to buy their relationship.

i think it obvious from my question that the doujinshi that i hate is the ones who ship straight anime guys together

finally i found some1 who agree :D
-it just feel doujinshi taint the pure friendship/or any kinda of relationship between the characters

Obviously, I'm just prompting you to have a better command of the English language.

I don't ship too often but I've shipped some straight guys when they have a strong friendship. Because when the bromance is that high it's damn near canon lol. I don't necessarily ship the characters romantically though.

I do dislike most dj's but I have no hate on the people create or read them.

I think the point of a lot of dj is to fulfill a fantasy, the what if. However I pretty much agree. Sometimes the idea of making a deep friendship a romance cheapens the friendship. Sherlock...some others. If the author clearly wants to imply romance, but the Manga isn't published in that kind of magezine, or by that kind of publisher then that's ok. Komatta tiki ni wa Hoshi...well the author states that you are meant to believe that they wind up together, so i feel like that is an OK ship lol...but the author writes the characters with that in mind, so i don't feel like it disrespects the characters. But I totally get where you are coming from. I maybe don't hate dj but I'm not always a huge fan.

I've felt like a weird alien for thinking the same thing.

You talking about anime characters who are straight then drawn in a doujin as a gay person? I personally like doujins. I imagine it as parallel world where that certain character was actually gay instead. (So a fiction within a fiction lol) BUT of course, I keep the doujins completely disconnected from the canon character. For instance I enjoy reading kageyama x hinata from haikyuu but when I actually do watch the anime, I don't fangirl every time the duo does a quick shot. I also read Kagami x kuroko from kuroko no basket but when I watch the anime, I'm more entertained by the game and don't focus the duo in a romantic way, but more of teammates. But I do respect your opinions though. People dislike certain things and that's understandable.

its a doujinshi aka FANFICTION. anything can happen. like hell guys can even get pregnant.

for me it depends on the anime/manga. there are doujinshi that makes me annoyed with how they disrespected the characters by making them do something they aren't not but there are also anime/manga that i feel these fujoshi "vibes" and those are the ones whom i ship. i dunno. it's just how i am.

chill, they're fictional characters

I don't either, unless someone writes a really good fic/manga about a pairing - which is really rare.

For me I found it upsetting that for some reason and this is gay or straight that people can't seem to accept that platonic love is just as strong as romantic love. I mean seriously if you're not willing to stand up for your friend and support them and maybe even die for them, then you really need to look into your friendships cuz you're doing something wrong.

But I see over and over again, oh god I ship them soooo hard! What? Why? Why can't they just be awesome friends? Why can't you ship friendship that hard? I seriously think that part of its that I'm aromantic, so romance means nothing to me on the best of days. But I'll say it again and again platonic love is not less than romantic love.

Can't think of how many TV shows have been absolutely ruined for me by having the two main characters who are great friends suddenly end up in relationships and married and just ruins everything...

i just can't stand djs where the character depictions are completely butchered

Ikr (〜￣△￣)〜 I feel like I've sinned and betrayed my beloved straight characters(￣∇￣")

I usualy don't read doujinshi mangas but damn when I see me some sexy Daiki and Taiga bara I just can't not read it
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i am a huge fan of doujin .basically the whole dj things are based on fantasy and made for that .i have a huge aokaga obsession have read all of their doujin because i like the feel between them it sexy and hot and makes me want more people who read doujin maybe with diffeent couple it might be like that for them too .and i totally understand that yous dont like it its okay not to like it it just ruins straight characters for you. but doujin are madw for those fujoshi's who like to ship certain characters .i dont find anything wrong with that let them ship their charcaters even if they want to unless they are pushing their ship down your throats like you have to like them too or else we wont forgive you.its okay not to like doujin and its okay to for people to like them if thats make them happy.they might like it because tbey might see some spark between their fav characters or want to see some action between them and doujin fulfil that .
no those who create them does not have zero respect for them they just do it because they like to se their fav character together .if they dont have respect for it they might not have worked their ass of for a doujin just to show their disrespect for a character.they do it because they love the character.i like kagami taiga he is my fav in knb along with daiki i just love how well tbey compliment each other when potrayed in a doujin its simply wonderful.

For me I'm a bit obsessed with parrel universes so I find some of the concepts in dj intresting but not always executed well. I have found that the best ones are often self published doujinshi by the original author or team member with an alternative scenario or event.

I tend to read more for the story/art than for who is being shipped. I have found I tend to read fanfic dj if the art/story looks good to me. I sometimes use the comments to filter what to read.

But for the fan fiction di (for it to be good for me) it has to set up the setting correctly and if there is any major changes in a characters personality these have to be explained/explored or else I feel adrift. (and I agree that it doesn't do the original justice if done poorly) There are very few that do this well, so I tend to dip in and out of the fanfic ones and read more of the original dj.

I may be wrong, because of my limited contact with the term, but my understanding of the term fujoshi is that they ship male pairings even if the pair is straight. (I have only come accross the term on male paired fanfic in manga, and usally the pair is straight. It is all about the characters/ authors fantasising). So that type of pairing might be what is expected. But personally I find it difficult to accept major changes in character unless developed properly.

I sorta agree with you. Like I like reading yaoi and shounen ai and all that, but I do dislike seeing straight guys getting shipped together, just because of their close friendship. But idk sometimes I'll let doujins slide in that I'll just ignore them? I'll admit though, when I find one of a characters I adore for their friendship, I get pretty annoyed. But what I REALLY hate, is when people insist that the ship is canon, and basically erase all friendship from the original series. Like, platonic love is real??? I guess I feel that way also because I personally love platonic friendships over romantic ones.

the thing i dont understand is why do you hate other people shipping the cjaracter they like .they can like whatever and ship their character why do people have to hate what other people like to do i dont understand .i dont personally like doujin and i hate when people ship characters it makes so much difference.let them like or love their character doujin are for those who like to ship characters.you hate it its fine i can understand why would you hate other people liking it it is not fair.

No no it's fine if you ship it. I guess I wasn't clear. What I hate is when they erase THE ORIGINAL SHIP or OTHER SHIPS. Basically, people who ship guyxguy and don't respect people who ship guyxgirl is what I meant. Like they'll insist the characters are ACTUALLY gay, as opposed to having a good friendship. And they'll hate anyone who ships the characters with girls instead. Because, yeah, otherwise I don't care what people do. Like for example, there's one story about a guy who becomes friends with another gloomy guy when he was a kid. He introduces the gloomy guy to his own friends, one of which was a girl who liked the MC. Later in the story, when they are all adults, the MC finds out the gloomy guy's in trouble, and he tries to find out how to save him. Meanwhile, he also starts liking the girl he was friends with. He manages to save his guy friend at the end of the story, and he marries the girl. But people insist that the MC and the guy are actually meant to be, and they hate on the girl for no reason. That's all I meant when I said I hate people insisting the guy x guy ship is canon. Because they're erasing a good friendship from the story, and acting like the girl is a terrible character

oh now i get it.yes that is crazy i got you wrong i am sorry for that.i have seen that too and this is indeed annoying.like what happend in tokyo ghoul it was disgusting some people go to extreme level which is bad .

Lol yeah, I'm glad that was cleared up.

Ive seen this happen a few times and it's annoying. what was that story called? I'm curious lol

Not a fan of doujins either, but I still tend to ship straight guys w/ each other.

Oh haha, it wasn't really a story per se. I was very loosely describing the plot of a video game called Tales of Graces f. It's got a manga adaptation, but unfortunately no one has translated it yet.

i know that the mangaka is (tsukumo gou/box) i searcher ALOT but i still can't find it

You're in luck, I was just reading that. It's called under control.
https://myreadingmanga.info/tsukumo-gou-box-control-eng/

:D thank you so much

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