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Flow September 29, 2026 7:29 pm

Guys, how to overcome avoident attachment? Its exactly as the title says. I genuinely try to overcome this and get close to men, but everytime i either get the ick and all other "avoident attachment symptoms" or the guy is a total idiot Its rlly a problem. But i am too stubborn to look for a Therapist tho and refuse.

    catmom888 September 29, 2026 7:45 pm

    Well you would first need to explore what caused it in the first place. For example, maybe you have abandonment trauma from your childhood because your parents divorced. You may avoid attachment in order to protect yourself; you cant be abandoned if you don't form connections or if you abandon them first (just a common example not saying this is what you have). There is no easy fix. Regardless, trauma-informed therapy with a therapist that uses cognitive behavioral therapy would be best and safest route to address these issues, help you understand the why, and possibly move on.

    Eeeeee September 29, 2026 7:47 pm

    Well the start is always with recognizing the problem, which you will have. I used to be an avoidant (disorganized). It's facing my parental issues over and over again and going against my avoidant tendancies. Affirmations may help too. Hope you have a good recovery, avoidant one is the easier part to heal than the anxious side :') At least for me

    Neko-chan September 29, 2026 7:48 pm

    depends on the cause, like why are you avoidant? why do u get the ick? also why do u not want to see a therapist? is it bc of money or bad experiences? if u can afford therapy, it'd be the quickest way to figure out ur issues instead of trying to do it on ur own if u can't figure out the cause

    bubbles September 29, 2026 8:36 pm

    I read this somewhere that you start idealizing romance in your head bc you read so much of it. So you are easily getting the ick when someone approach you or try to get closer to u. My advice is just try shit out while ure young. But idk it's maybe just ur journey to asexualism, what do i know

Flow December 28, 2025 4:11 pm

Chat, is this a sign i should fucking get my life back instead of just reading all day and gooning? Will this be my academic comeback?

    Julia December 28, 2025 4:34 pm

    no twin get your funny up fuck the academics. school is temporary yaoi/yuri is forever

    Flow February 3, 2026 11:29 am
    no twin get your funny up fuck the academics. school is temporary yaoi/yuri is forever Julia

    HAHAHAH I just read ur comment lol
    Its been a few months and I am still here. But you’re so real for it ahahaha

Flow June 9, 2024 1:59 pm

GUYSS i need a recommendation. Pls a bl story, where the protagonist is cute and innocent (like doesnt jerk off and all) and then gets ravaged and fucked by the ML. Would be nice if he stayed innocent

    RYE_ June 9, 2024 4:28 pm

    here for the recs as well

Flow June 2, 2024 7:18 pm

I wanna have some new websites (which could be labeled relatively safe) on which i can read hentai. Please don't rec nhentai xD
Thanksss

    gackts left nipple June 2, 2024 7:21 pm

    Myreadingmanga.info for me

    Min June 2, 2024 7:26 pm

    i see sites like hitomi(dot)la around, maybe you could try it?

    Flow June 2, 2024 7:26 pm
    Myreadingmanga.info for me gackts left nipple

    Myreadingmanga is genius, i know and love it too bro

    Flow June 2, 2024 7:27 pm
    i see sites like hitomi(dot)la around, maybe you could try it? Min

    Ohh don't know this one, thanks I'm gonna try

    Charlotte505 June 2, 2024 7:40 pm

    Nhentai

Flow May 2, 2024 7:33 am

The mc is a wolf girl with white hair, she has ice powers and a little wolf brother. She originally was supposed to die but survived because she is a transmigrating person. Then she met a little girl, who in the future has something with her little brother. The little girl and her older brother (who is the ML) are dragons with fire powers.

Plsss help me find this!!

Flower April 19, 2024 3:23 pm

Short,blond(?),popular seme(?) x tall,dark haired(?),unpopular uke(?) (hair color/roles could be switched)
Only thing I remember was that the unpopular guy was resting/sleeping in the infirmary and the short, popular guy chained him down with his necktie

I‘ve been searching for literally years, pls help ;-;
Sorry for the little informations and thank you!

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