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i'm 31 years old. There are many good answer to this question.. some of my advices are written for others persons already, so i'll say 2 that i want to add or emphasize: 1- Do what you want to do. But i'm not speaking only about dreams, i'm talking about all your choices. Dont let others provoke you; dont listen to all the advices/suggestion/etc yo......

There's been a lot of good advice given so far so I'm going to try to cover something that hasn't been said yet. Keep in touch with your friends. Know and understand that friendship is a two way street: you both need to be reaching out to each other, otherwise one of you is going to burn out or you will drift. The older you get, the harder it is t......

I am 42 and I have only one advice: Do not idealise anything! Do not idealise love, marriage, religion, politics, your career, your children etc... We are all humans and everyone will fail at some point. I often see ppl with lofty ideals and when those ideals come crashing down, some never recover and to this day hold grudges. I see parents who pla......

stop doubting yourself, stop doubting your intelligence, stop doubting your creativity, stop doubting your writing skills, stop obsessing over that boy from your gym class, stop writing his name everywhere it's cringy, stop trying to figure out his class schedule, just stop it, also stop comparing yourself to the girls he's friends with and dates t......

Even when I was a kid I'd always wanted to meet my future self. So as the future me i have a lot to say like- First of all, I'm going to hug my younger self and tell her, "You're doing amazing. You've been through a lot yet you kept fighting not giving a damn about negative comments and feelings that overwhelmed you. You are a warrior and You don't......