the amount of u people who dont understand how trauma works when formed for a super long time infuriate the shit out of me, when trauma is formed for a long time, it is so hard to break out of that pattern and learn you can be better and do better in other relationships. While i agree that its bad that he cheated on ML back with ML2, and invaided ML privacy, but calling ML a pushover when hes tryna help teach MC learn and form better relationship habits is not okay, its GOING to take a long time for MC to learn how to be better and with the way that his trauma has formed i understand what hes going through, hes used to being thrown out for people that are "better than him" so hes back to that pattern of feeling unusable by his partner.
like recap, he is GOING to take a long time i hate how u guys treat him like a horrible villian when hes just very trained to his trauma, just take a moment to put urself in his shoes, stop being so insensitive
He’s def not a bad person, just a bad partner and his trauma doesn’t justify him cheating ofc. ML is def not a pushover for trying to help but I also won’t blame him if he breaks up with MC, he deserves to not feel bad either. I also pity MC, I didn’t know much until I saw the translations. You can see he’s really brainwashed by the 2nd ML. It’s disgusting and sad
exacrly my thoughts, thank you for helping me put it into words better. it bery much doesnt justify cheating, i just hate seeing MC be called a terrible person just because of how he reacts and etc from his trauma and brainwashing, i just want ppl to put theirselves in his shoes cus i cant imagine going what he went through with pain in the ass ML2
Yes. It’s not like MC is doing sex because he wants to. He’s doing it because he’s being brainwashed, his first ever love was with black haired dude, he believed everything that dude said, he was also isolated and believed himself wasn’t good enough.
Although MC disgusted me with his cheating, he can get a second chance because he didn’t cheat cause he wanted to. He was made to feel bad about himself, ML didn’t do anything wrong and tried his best as a partner and good person overall. MC just has this different mindset that was wired by the bad dude.
I do hope when ML gives him a second chance, he learns as he best can and realizes he’s not right and that dude is using him and taking advantage of him.
this series is lowkey pissing my off i think im gonna drop it