so i've been wondering for a while if I was bisexual or just bicurious.
I know that I like guys and I think I prefer them over women a lot...But sometimes I feel an unexplainable attraction for SOME girls.Its not like with boys,when I feel attracted to them easily...I'm only attracted to some special girls...As if I had a type?And that attraction can be really subtle or like strong...The first time I realized I was attracted to a girl was when I was 13.And at that moment that girl did something that turned me on.I also had a friend I used to go smoke with and one day She was holding a cigarette and looked really cool and attractive,and the only thing I could think about at that moment was how much I wanted to kiss Her,then I spent two days after that just fantacizing about Her and about having sex with Her and getting really turned on...I can also get attracted to girls in movies and stuff,especially if they portray a lesbian character.And sometimes just a passing girl in the street.When i look at lesbian sex scenes(not lesbian porn because that's mainly directed towards straight males but from movies like Carol or even just the tiny scene in the girl with the dragon tatto when lisbeth was with a girl),I get somewhat turned on...It's not as intense as when I'm reading smutty yaoi or anything with hot bishies in it but still.Also I have never masturbated to anything girl's related while I have for boy's related stuff.I also am not interested in any special female body part or just the body unlike for boys.But I still get turned at the idea of having sex,like real lesbian sex,not just cuddling or kissing with a girl that I 'm attracted to or that makes my heart skip a beat.I also find myself attracted mainly or maybe only to girls who look powerful and independant or who have a strong personality,even though I'm not someone you would consider as shy or introvert at first sight,maybe even an extrovert who is somewhat of fake person and who laughs a lot,but I am a very shy,weak and sensitive person on the inside who gets easily hurt and is afraid of people and of being hated,I also grew up without a father and have issues with my mum as She used to beat me up alot when I was younger,oh and i'm 17 by the way.So I wanted to know If when I desire a girl ,is it because SHE IS A GIRL or because I'm just curious,Or because I have some type of emotional need that needs to be filled in.
there is no need to put a label on what u are but u might be bi or pansexual..if u ever feel the need to, u can date a girl and see for urself^^
Funny, Cuz I'm going through the same thing, except I actually so sorta masturbate to girls in porn and hentai, except I never desired a girl relationship wise
I guess maybe u r my friend.. but hey its okay i guess why don't u just follow ur hart? I mean there is people who like both men and women they just like they dont care about if its boy or girl they just wanna find true love..but if u wanted the body maybe because of the things that turn u on maybe?and the people that will hate u they r just in stupid people just don't care and keep moving on in ur life even if ur life its bad never lose hope if u need help we r with u my friend DON'T LOSE HOPE KEEP STRONG!! Lov u
And why there is people dislike ur question? This is one of the stupid people that i was talking about
Do you consider that you just see these gurls as your Idol? Or something? i mean i found out I can like girls when I fell for my bestfriend irl. Imean, i really was thinking about it for months before I asked her out. I mean she told me before I knoew i wasnt straight that she was a lesbian. Then suddenly i just wanna idk. It just happened i keep on thinking about her a lot. Doing stuff with her. And stoofo. Yrah. Took me 3 months to think thouroughly of what I am really feeling and I asked her out 3 days before my birthday everything was going well. But something had to go wrong.. her friends didnt support us and I dont want her to loose her friends so I had to let her go because, she didnt fight for us anyways. So yeah. Idk if this helped tbh
If you get attracted to both male and female, then you are probably bisexual. You get turned on with the same gender? You probably are. Even though you had past relationships with dudes-- but females attract you--- still, that makes u bi asf. Have u ever hooked up with the same gender? If you liked it, and wanted it again....then you know the answer. If not, uhm, u might be just bicurious. It really doesn't matter wether u like males or females more. If u like both, then that's it. Though you, yourself and I would be the only one who can answer your question. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
*you, yourself (lol i typed "and i" dont mind it)
i already kissed with two straight girls but didn't feel overwhelmed...I kinda liked it though
i guess they don't have a lot to keep them busy
Yeah... idiot people anyway u guys have to be always strong and face this people and dont ever be ashamed of yourself
so lately i've been bored with stuff,so I've been picturing what my ideal boy would be like.
I added as many details as I could and I've come up with some hot mess ....now I was wondering if there was anyone here fitting that description:
_Skinny
_height ¨+169cm
_pansexual
_likes to be the uke(neko,bottom,the one to get it in the butt) with a woman
_likes to crossdress
_paints his nails and wears earrings and ocasionally puts makeup on(outside of crossdressing)
_knows how to cook
_likes yaoi
_an otaku
_has a weird laugh
I'm not hitting on the potential guy or wanting thave any contact with him...just wondering if He exists.