Time to drop it till the reconciliation arc is over
I really fucking hate the "forgive your abusive parents bc you'll feel better" narrative. Christian mentality about forgiveness is exhausting, you don't have to forgive ppl to feel better babes
Asian culture is heavy on filial piety and I’m still suffering from it to this day. A lot of Asian kids grow up taking care of their abusive parents (obviously not all are abusive but it helps that there’s filial piety to reduce parent’s accountability for them) and it’s hard to break cycle.
I’m hoping Hyesung just gets closure for his own sake and moves on. Not for anyone but himself and maybe kids. He shouldn’t forgive what granny did in past for sure.
I'm latino, and in that aspect my culture is similar. Here the filian aspect of forgiveness abusive ppl comes from Christian mentality: "Forgive the ones who wronged you and honor your parents" bullshit
I really don't see why you have to forgive someone to feel better, you just have to move on with your life.
She received all the support (that she didn’t really deserve but still got) from Dojin. What more does she want? I hope she isn’t selfish, I hope she lets Hyesung move on. I kind of agree with forgiveness part, I guess it’s more about forgiving someone so you don’t feel guilty for cutting contact? Idk.










oh I can't believe it ended! I love this story so much, being reading since the first week.