shadox

Bro doesn’t care he’s a victim of rape, okay…
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I’m with shadox on this one, he can heal from his trauma without falling in love with the 17-year-old he’s married to. I think him falling in love might even cheapen his experiences

I don’t see any relevance with what I said. I’m only pointing out that the op doesn’t give a shit about his trauma, despite him being a victim of rape. I didn’t say anything about their opinion of him being a love interest or about the romance. I only had an issue with how heartless they are when it comes to sexual assault. I just imagine how ppl would likely care had it been the FL who got raped and had trauma instead, but they don’t care just cause he’s a guy.

But if you REALLY wanna talk about the age, you did choose to read a historical setting story, this should be expected. Plus it sounds like ppl would’ve been upset regardless, if you reread the first chapter the FL says she was originally 36 years old and went into a 17 year old’s body. Technically their ages should have matched very closely. And it’s not crazy to think the dude fell in love with a girl who is actually mentally his age. Had she been with a man that is close to her new physical age, yall either would’ve still been upset that a woman who’s actually 36 is falling for a 17 yr old dude, or you would’ve brushed it off and supported it cause it looks good for appearances sake. This isn’t that different from who made me a princess or other main stream stories that have the mc go into a younger body and fall in love with a younger guy.

Thank you.

Goodness gracious, it's not about the rape and I feel bad about it. But, I'm not a fan of the rape victim "falling" in love with the mc because they are not the same as the ones in their gender.

I would have said the same if the mc was male and fl fell in the with him because he is not the same as other men. This reason of falling in love with mc water down the rape aspect and makes feel icky and like their romance aren't real, because the moment mc do something that might trigger the trauma of the love interest the arc that follows to get their trust back usually is not logical at all.

Besides, I feel disgusted because I personally as a ch***ild got sexual harassed several times so it's all in all icky for me that's it

Let’s not refer to me or anyone else as “y’all” and assume what we would or wouldn’t pick and choose to dislike. I find it a little offensive you’d even suggest I’d “brush off” an age gap if the fl were the older one given we’re strangers and you don’t know a lick about me… a 17 year old is a child regardless of gender and shouldn’t be marrying a 36 year old, plain and simple. Unfortunately the ml doesn’t know about the true age of the fl— all he sees is a child who’s”mature for her age” which… I mean, surely you’ve seen that excuse before. It’s a historical story but that doesn’t mean we aren’t free to judge with our modern views… and also this “historical” story has transmigration and potions, it’s not exactly like it’s the most true-to-realistic thing out there— a more age-appropriate relationship wouldn’t exactly have been any more immersion-breaking to the plotline…

Your original point, fine. I may have misread your original intent with your comment and that’s on me but also… like can we be real I’m sure they meant to imply that his trauma specifically being the cause of his hatred for women was the trope they didn’t care for, not that they didn’t care about his backstory. It was just worded kind of weird because we’re on a backwater manga site.

Question do you ship Athy and Lucas?

The reason why I assumed anything about things you would brush off, was because of your Already Read list, “who made me a princess” is a story that includes the FL physically becoming a child (toddler) and she first meets the grown adult ML who conveniently has his physical body changed to match her age.

Plus you’re also here on this story where the roles are kind of reversed. So the educated guesses add up two stories you have read that include this trope.

Lol, I’m a fan of revenge plots and stories with female leads. I read that story… years ago? I don’t even remember the plot at this point, but— sure, I did read it. I will say I’m not a fan of romantic subplots and the story, from what I can remember, had some great developments and drama. It just also seems to be a fetish of most of these authors to add weird relationship gaps. It’s why I’ve mostly switched over to “gamer” or dungeon type stories instead since main characters usually never get involved in a relationship— not that I ever remember to mark what I’ve finished anyway… good reminder

THIS!! the "I don't care if he has a trauma caused by a woman which seems like gonna be the reason" from them made me uncomfortable. I wonder what one's upbringing is like for them to be okay with Rape and Sexual assault. It's really uncomfortable and disgusting to be around ppl with that mindset.

Omfg what…

First of all, this is fiction, how someone regards a fictional character's trauma shouldn't give you the right to insult a real human being.

Second of all, OOP themselves are a victim of sexual assault when they were a child, so you basically just called someone who went through the very same thing you tried to defend disgusting yeah?

Third of all, I'm pretty sure they didn't mean "didn't care" as in the context of trying to brush off the male lead's trauma, but rather "didn't care" as in they don't care if the story is trying to use the male lead's trauma with r*pe as a plot device to justify developing a romantic relationship between mc and the ml (which imho really just further invalidates ml's trauma)

Just wanted to get my point across, OOP did nothing wrong, just worded stuff wrong and people are acting like they m*rdered a baby or something, some of you guys are reaching, don't expect a reply because I can't be bothered.

I'm not listening to your BS if you're gonna start with "First of all, this is fiction" What if it's Child porn involved in "fiction" would you be still saying it's fiction and it's okay to disregard? Oh btw SECOND OF ALL I'm not insulting them and Infact even agree with the fact that any minor x adult is pedo territory. It's the fact that they said they "don't care" about the Sexual harassment that happened to the dude. I WILL always be uncomfortable with people who disregard Rape and SA in fiction, just like how they're also uncomfortable the fact the MC is a minor in her physical form.

YES! PLEASE! But it is fine for me if they do end up falling in love. I just hope that part comes after A LONG, LONG time. Slowburn, you know?

Thank you, English isn't my first language so wording things correctly isn't my strongest ability. But, yes that's what I meant so, thank you for understanding♡♡♡.

What the fuxk is wrong with the comment, I couldn't get past chapter 14. It's so infuriating. I have read some bad and full of terrible themes stories but this made so mad. Only way I can continue this trash is if I have a guarantee that mc is going to kill all of those filthy characters including the old trash "ml".