hey weiwei san thanks again for ur advise well we decided to take a break from each other so we havnt talked or met to each other for a while now i just thought u should know....
im gonna take ur advise into consideration and thanks for replying with all sincerity... if u dont mind but the thing is dont know if i love him and i dont even know if i dont love him does that even make sense i dont know..all i know that i dont wanna break up with him since hes taken such good care of me for the past 2 years u could call it mental dependency but i ll be reaally sad if hes not around i feel like this ia deja vu ...i know this sounds like i love him but for me love is big word and i dont think i can give him that u know writing this im beginning to know how selfish im being..god i feel like crying well thanks for listenning
I know u are sad, u can cry if it makes u feel better, i don't know how u feel 'cause i am not u and u are not me. From ur reply I think that u think of him as a best friend,like everyone love their best friends and they don't want to leave them , but love on the other hand is different, i don't even know it yet but i think love is when u miss someone, not in ur free time , but also when u are busy,A smile on their face make a smile on urs like newton's third law lol, or when u can't look on the bright side they will sit with u in the dark,or they will ask u what makes u feel bitter, while other are just saying u are rude,U share every little small thing with the person u love,It’s not a single word. It’s a feeling. It is varied from person to person. your mother always ensures that you have eaten properly and on time. This is love. Your father gets you an extra pen, an extra eraser, an extra ruler and gets up in the wee hours of the morning just to wake you up during the exams. This is love. You are traveling alone or with friends and your parents keep calling you to inquire whether you have reached safely. This is love. Your sister cooks something for the first time. She brings a plate just for you and insists on feeding you with her own hands. This is love. Your brother gets a new bike and takes you along on a special ride. This is love. You get your favorite chocolate bar and can't wait to eat it whole. But then, you keep some for your sister/brother. This is love. You and your better half are sitting on the sofa watching TV. In no time, you are oblivious of what's happening on the television and are just lost in each others eyes. This is love. You are feeling sad and your friends do everything they can to cheer you up. This is love. Nothing seems more joyful than playing with your pet and feeding them. Your pet waits for you to return home and goes on to jump on you as soon as the doorbell rings. This is love. You play basketball with your son. You make him play hard but ultimately let him win just to see the smile on his face. This is love. When you forget everything when she/he smiles. When she/he says, I know you will be with me and you make every effort to keep her/his happy and smiling. This is Love.
So i think u should spend some quality time with urself and think if u really love that person or not. :)
I know u are sad, u can cry if it makes u feel better, i don't know how u feel 'cause i am not u and u are not me. From ur reply I think that u think of him as a best friend,like everyone love their best friend... Weiwei
thats the sweetest definition of love i have ever heard but since i was not lucky enough to enjoy love of a family but i know that ive thought of him and it has bought smile to my face and that even though he knows that i have my way of life he accepted me and ive made some ridiculous conditions and hes listened to them i still dont know if its the love that he expects i will take my time and think it trough than i will decide what to do...thanks very much for ur advise now atleast i know what to do ...its really nice having someone t talk to thanks again
thats the sweetest definition of love i have ever heard but since i was not lucky enough to enjoy love of a family but i know that ive thought of him and it has bought smile to my face and that even though he ... littlebirdy
no probs. U can ask for my help again :) and i hope u will be happy
hey wei wei san thanks very much for the reply and sorry for taking up ur time and i dont know what happened to the reply i guess i pressed the wrong button so it disappeared..
a school friend said we should break up if its not working out and said its not like its gonna effect me or anything but i ddont think its not gonna effect me even if i dont love him the guy most likely waited for me to respond to him for a year and that even i know is not a small thing i dont get why does he even like me im told ive got the shittiest personality bu alllll my relatives and friends at first hes gonna dump me mid way for rejecting him before now i dont think so BUT WHAT THE HELL DOES HE WANT FROM ME...
and i told him today if it was something i said he just said dont worry abt it i mean what the fuck just tell me what went wrong i freakin went on a date does he know how cringed i was and its my body ur my freakin fiance what does he expect first u cling on saying i dont mind ur personality now ur pissed off..ahhhhhhh that felt good complaining to someone i dont eeven know if ur goona read it all but thanks for proposing to listen...i really dont know what to do..
and he asked me if i was sure and i said i dont care its either now or after the wedding...weve been engaged for almost 2 years now i know how it goes so lets just get on with it and thats ithe just stared at me for a while and said" im never gonna get to u am i "and bam he just left he hasnt contacted me for 2 days now and since we study at the same uni we sometime run into each other and say hi but im sure im being ignored..
the problem is that i dont know what type of love he expects from me im a student so lifes hectic and im not a thoughtless person and hes a guy i know he has needs lets be frank and so far all weve done is kiss a few times ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ( i dunno why but im feeling shy)well recently it was his birthday and i actually asked here what to get him and not so surprisingly i got the date and offering myself idea so i took him on a date well fast forward i think he had a great time and we went to his house (hes the only guy ive dated so m a virgin)we chated for a while and i told him that if he want we could do it and he kissed me....
i can say that he loves me even though we ve had a really weird when i say weird i mean it life and its a merical that were together(he was my teacher in highschool ┗( T﹏T )┛) yeah that happened but he was just a temp and we got together a years after school so its very legal weeellll hes a assistant professor at my uni for practicals so i dont know if its legal were angaged so i guess it is..
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hey weiwei san thanks again for ur advise well we decided to take a break from each other so we havnt talked or met to each other for a while now i just thought u should know....
Aww, thank u for telling me :) and u did great, sometimes its good to take a Break and invest in urself
i really dont know what to do or what i want i just dont wanna make the wrong decision and regret it later...
im gonna take ur advise into consideration and thanks for replying with all sincerity...
if u dont mind but the thing is dont know if i love him and i dont even know if i dont love him does that even make sense i dont know..all i know that i dont wanna break up with him since hes taken such good care of me for the past 2 years u could call it mental dependency but i ll be reaally sad if hes not around i feel like this ia deja vu ...i know this sounds like i love him but for me love is big word and i dont think i can give him that u know writing this im beginning to know how selfish im being..god i feel like crying well thanks for listenning
I know u are sad, u can cry if it makes u feel better, i don't know how u feel 'cause i am not u and u are not me. From ur reply I think that u think of him as a best friend,like everyone love their best friends and they don't want to leave them , but love on the other hand is different, i don't even know it yet but i think love is when u miss someone, not in ur free time , but also when u are busy,A smile on their face make a smile on urs like newton's third law lol, or when u can't look on the bright side they will sit with u in the dark,or they will ask u what makes u feel bitter, while other are just saying u are rude,U share every little small thing with the person u love,It’s not a single word. It’s a feeling. It is varied from person to person.
your mother always ensures that you have eaten properly and on time. This is love.
Your father gets you an extra pen, an extra eraser, an extra ruler and gets up in the wee hours of the morning just to wake you up during the exams. This is love.
You are traveling alone or with friends and your parents keep calling you to inquire whether you have reached safely. This is love.
Your sister cooks something for the first time. She brings a plate just for you and insists on feeding you with her own hands. This is love.
Your brother gets a new bike and takes you along on a special ride. This is love.
You get your favorite chocolate bar and can't wait to eat it whole. But then, you keep some for your sister/brother. This is love.
You and your better half are sitting on the sofa watching TV. In no time, you are oblivious of what's happening on the television and are just lost in each others eyes. This is love.
You are feeling sad and your friends do everything they can to cheer you up. This is love.
Nothing seems more joyful than playing with your pet and feeding them. Your pet waits for you to return home and goes on to jump on you as soon as the doorbell rings. This is love.
You play basketball with your son. You make him play hard but ultimately let him win just to see the smile on his face. This is love.
When you forget everything when she/he smiles. When she/he says, I know you will be with me and you make every effort to keep her/his happy and smiling. This is Love.
So i think u should spend some quality time with urself and think if u really love that person or not. :)
thats the sweetest definition of love i have ever heard but since i was not lucky enough to enjoy love of a family but i know that ive thought of him and it has bought smile to my face and that even though he knows that i have my way of life he accepted me and ive made some ridiculous conditions and hes listened to them i still dont know if its the love that he expects i will take my time and think it trough than i will decide what to do...thanks very much for ur advise now atleast i know what to do ...its really nice having someone t talk to thanks again
no probs. U can ask for my help again :) and i hope u will be happy
hey wei wei san thanks very much for the reply and sorry for taking up ur time and i dont know what happened to the reply i guess i pressed the wrong button so it disappeared..
and im not a dark person or anything just had a shitty childhood so things like feeling is just not my thing..and im done complaining ╮(￣▽￣)╭
a school friend said we should break up if its not working out and said its not like its gonna effect me or anything but i ddont think its not gonna effect me even if i dont love him the guy most likely waited for me to respond to him for a year and that even i know is not a small thing i dont get why does he even like me im told ive got the shittiest personality bu alllll my relatives and friends at first hes gonna dump me mid way for rejecting him before now i dont think so BUT WHAT THE HELL DOES HE WANT FROM ME...
and i told him today if it was something i said he just said dont worry abt it i mean what the fuck just tell me what went wrong i freakin went on a date does he know how cringed i was and its my body ur my freakin fiance what does he expect first u cling on saying i dont mind ur personality now ur pissed off..ahhhhhhh that felt good complaining to someone i dont eeven know if ur goona read it all but thanks for proposing to listen...i really dont know what to do..
and he asked me if i was sure and i said i dont care its either now or after the wedding...weve been engaged for almost 2 years now i know how it goes so lets just get on with it and thats ithe just stared at me for a while and said" im never gonna get to u am i "and bam he just left he hasnt contacted me for 2 days now and since we study at the same uni we sometime run into each other and say hi but im sure im being ignored..
the problem is that i dont know what type of love he expects from me im a student so lifes hectic and im not a thoughtless person and hes a guy i know he has needs lets be frank and so far all weve done is kiss a few times ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ( i dunno why but im feeling shy)well recently it was his birthday and i actually asked here what to get him and not so surprisingly i got the date and offering myself idea so i took him on a date well fast forward i think he had a great time and we went to his house (hes the only guy ive dated so m a virgin)we chated for a while and i told him that if he want we could do it and he kissed me....
i can say that he loves me even though we ve had a really weird when i say weird i mean it life and its a merical that were together(he was my teacher in highschool ┗( T﹏T )┛) yeah that happened but he was just a temp and we got together a years after school so its very legal weeellll hes a assistant professor at my uni for practicals so i dont know if its legal were angaged so i guess it is..