Liking Yuyang less now...I wish that was not the case but... it's such a basic thing when it comes to empathy for other people. You don't invite someone to hang out and then leave them alone halfway through to hang out with other people. Even if the other person says it is ok in order to try not to force your hand. What you are essentially saying when you leave them is that you would rather hang out with someone else, which is a super rude situation to put someone in, especially if you where the one who invited them. Not a quality you want in a friend, much less potential love interest. This is kindergarden drama!
I get what you mean, but I´m not really seeing it that strict? They are at this point just casual acquaintances and both in university. One of them going to play waterpolo or whatever, while the other continues to swim lanes should not really be an issue. Especially since swimming lanes is something you normally do on your own anyway. But apart from the more general stuff, Yu Yang does feel bad about it afterwards and he might have only done it, because subconsciously he still feels the need to put some distance between him and Li Huan.
I get what you mean, but I´m not really seeing it that strict? They are at this point just casual acquaintances and both in university. One of them going to play waterpolo or whatever, while the other continue... PotatoJuice
Yeah, I agree. Tbh I think people are overreacting a little bit but eh ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I get what you mean, but I´m not really seeing it that strict? They are at this point just casual acquaintances and both in university. One of them going to play waterpolo or whatever, while the other continue... PotatoJuice
"subconsciously he still feels the need to put some distance between him and Li Huan" is exactly what keep me from the urge to lecture someone like YuYang.
Liking Yuyang less now...I wish that was not the case but... it's such a basic thing when it comes to empathy for other people. You don't invite someone to hang out and then leave them alone halfway through to hang out with other people. Even if the other person says it is ok in order to try not to force your hand. What you are essentially saying when you leave them is that you would rather hang out with someone else, which is a super rude situation to put someone in, especially if you where the one who invited them. Not a quality you want in a friend, much less potential love interest. This is kindergarden drama!
I get what you mean, but I´m not really seeing it that strict? They are at this point just casual acquaintances and both in university. One of them going to play waterpolo or whatever, while the other continues to swim lanes should not really be an issue. Especially since swimming lanes is something you normally do on your own anyway.
But apart from the more general stuff, Yu Yang does feel bad about it afterwards and he might have only done it, because subconsciously he still feels the need to put some distance between him and Li Huan.
Yeah, I agree. Tbh I think people are overreacting a little bit but eh ¯_(ツ)_/¯
"subconsciously he still feels the need to put some distance between him and Li Huan" is exactly what keep me from the urge to lecture someone like YuYang.