My question is, why does Chase seem to be neglected in Kiss me if you can? But Grayson in here seems to be loved? Chase seems to be the most normal out of all the siblings. The only reason he's like a red flag at the beginning was because he's a neglected child and was and still is suffering from PTSD because of Grayson. And their parents seem to not care? To the novel readers, please enlighten me. Idc about spoilers. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
No ,both of them were neglected chase is the the only normal one he manifested in his puberty he can Fully understand emotions grayson does not understand emotions he as a child went to multiple hospitals and each one of them said he can't feel emotions all his facial expressions were taught to him for example if someone was smiling he knew they were smiling but couldn't understand why he is desperately searching for his fated partner in order to feel something.. ashley miller is even more harsh with grayson than chase because of the way grayson help while harming people around him( koi,chase he harmed them without even knowing)ashley in order that grayson does not kill anyone would lock him for days in dark room as punishment we see this in grayson's pov who does not understand he suffered abuse kinda feel bad for him but even though ashley and koi love them deeply koi even fought with Ashley to let him keep chase (chase is koi's fav child )..koi love for his children is pure, Ashley's love for them is twisted he hates the fact that his children resembles him and Dominic (chase's grandfather)... desire me if you can is a healing story zig said it will not only heal Grayson and dane but also ashley miller
Ohhhh... Now that makes sense. If Grayson is like that then it's understandable why he didn't think much of what happened to him as a child. Unlike Chase who has a pretty normal psychology and took everything that happened to him when he's a child as a sign of his parents being bad parents. It's no wonder he hates Grayson, understandably so, and Grayson still acting like he didn't do anything wrong because he probably thinks he didn't.
Yes, that's exactly why. Grayson is actually the only (I think) Miller child that received more special care and attention from parents cos he's kinda.. well.. "special" XD, they were always afraid he could end up committing murder and sent to prison (or a mental hospital) for life, because he's a psycho XD, and also I think Grayson is the only one who inherited a cute habit (flapping ears lol) from Koi (the omega mommy/daddy) and even though to Ashley, Grayson resembles his father (whom he hates) a lot compared to his other children, everytime Ashley sees that habit on Grayson, his cold heart just gets softer with him.
No, this is big misunderstanding. Ashley do care for them all but he treated Grayson the worst. He just didn't allow them to be close to their omega father. So chase, grayson and stacy as children wanted to be with Koi, chase wanted koi to cuddle him but he didn't allow any of that. And ppl from KMIYC thinks that Chase was treated badly but no. Everytime Grayson hurt chase, he punished Grayson severely and harshly. Yes Grayson due to his mental issues is dangerous there's no denying in it. (Even irl those ppl are dangerous). But his father instead of guiding him correctly punished him and abused him. (Grayson couldn't even understand that he is being abused). Ashley once choked a 10 yr old Grayson too when he unintentionally hurt Koi. He would lock Grayson in a dark basement for days without food. He slapped him. He thinks that Grayson is the most problematic one that's why was more attentive to him and not to others. Ashley and Koi did everything to make Chase comfortable in the house as it was difficult for Chase to live in a family of emotion less ppl (chase and bliss were only emotional ppl in the house). But they didn't gave him what he needed the most which was affection. They came up with many solutions to protect chase. Eventually they decided to send Chase to film industry so that he would meet different ppl who are able to express loce. So it is very wrong to say that Ashley and Koi never cared fo Chase.
Ashley ws actually sure that Grayson would def kill/rape someone. When he heard from Dane that his own son was raped by an Omega, he didn't even blink an eye. He didn't show any emotion for his own son who was raped. Instead he was relaxed that thank god its Grayson who is raped. So it's not his care for Grayson but worry so he was more attentive to him.
From what I remember, Ashley treated Grayson like that because Ashley thinks that Grayson resembled his grandfather (Ashley's father) so much, he thought his character is also the same. That he might do what his grandfather did (ashley's parents' story was really fucked up and toxic until the end. it does NOT have a happy ending. ashley himself almost did the same thing but thankfully he didn't) that's why he's paying much more attention to grayson than he did his other kids.
The one that is loved, pampered and spoiled by the whole family is Bliss, the youngest and only dominant omega.
Koi loves all his children unconditionally.
If you think so, because Ashley agreed to let him become a firefighter, that is the fault of the manhwa adaption. They left out something really important. Grayson inherited a trait from Koi: Koi used to move his ears when he got exited. Grayson does that unitentionally, and Ashley is weak for it. He did that during their talk.
It's actually really important, because it also indicates that Grayson feels soemthing and there is another person who is weak for it... .











According to some spoilers I read, they are all biologically related. Did they change it in the manhwa so it would be more palatable?
yes! they're actually blood related in the novel, but since it got adapted into a manhwa they changed it because incest is heavily restricted in korea.